"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How much pain should there be?

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Im doing burnout sets in my routine and that stuff HURTS. :nervous:

How far should you take the pain? Is it healthy? Can I hurt myself? I know i could probably do one or two more *if i really HAD to (life threatening situation?)*

Also, what methods are good to break the pain barrier?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you feel pain to either a joint or a muscle, then stop what you are doing because you are either doing something wrong or doing too much of it.

However if only what you feel can be describe as a "burning sensation" then its a good thing while working out, keep at it.

Remember Burn not pain.
 

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Well, if you're training to gain muscle...burnout sets are BAD BAD BAD. They will set back your gains by a LOT. That burning sensation is lactic acid being released, and lactic acid is bad bad bad for muscle growth (it leads to tissue catabolism and makes recovery longer). But if you're doing endurance, then go for it.
 

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Don't be a p*ssy...GO TO FAILURE.

Like the one guy said, there's GOOD pain and BAD pain. BAD pain is when your joint is actually HURTING. Good pain is when your muscles feel like they are TOTALLY F*CKING EXHAUSTED.

Last week I was doing heavy lunges. I was going for my 10th rep, and after my descent, I tried to push up again, but my legs died on me!

And, there was no f*cking spotter! I had reached totally failure, but guess what, because I didn't want to look like a dumbass and have to drop all the weight on the floor, I gathered ALL of my energy and pushed that sonava***** weight up!

I am not saying to go around and do what I did, but sometimes, those last reps, the ones where you don't know if you are going to make it, are the ones that really give your muscles that boost!

They say that even getting a little scared..and then CONQUERING it boosts your testosterone levels.
 

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workerouter you are completely correct.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't understand why anyone would want to train for failure. If you push yourself till you can't push your muscles anymore, then that's exactly what you're doing - training them to fail.
 

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corny
 

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Originally posted by Sometimes
Im doing burnout sets in my routine and that stuff HURTS. :nervous:

How far should you take the pain? Is it healthy? Can I hurt myself? I know i could probably do one or two more *if i really HAD to (life threatening situation?)*

Also, what methods are good to break the pain barrier?
burnout sets are ****, keep in the rep range of 4-6 and fail at the last rep either 4,5 or 6
 

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Why are burnout sets ****? They tear my muscles more than failing with normal sets and Anthony Ellis reccomends them.

Im kinda confused now :confused:
 
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