"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How much is too much?

the_m@n

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Hey all. I was kind of a scrawny guy about 3 months ago (5'6" 136 LBS). I started working out and eating a lot and have put on about 10 lbs of muscle in about 2.5 to 3 months. Rescently I started to plateau so I am trying to figure out what it could be. Someone suggested to me that I may be working out too much (I have been working out every day except Sunday) Up until a few days ago I hadn't been using any supplements or shakes or anything like that. I finally got some shake mix and have been drinking that stuff (in water) with breakfast, in the afternoon and then right after my workout. I have also increased the weights in my routine to really push myself. I was doing 12 rep sets of 3 on just about everything. I am now trying to make a transition to anywhere from 6 to 10 rep sets of 3 on however much weight I can lift. Is this the correct strategy for bulking up? I am also consuming as much healthy protein and carbs as I can.

Thanks for the input.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the_m@n said:
I have been working out every day except Sunday
Too much is a misunderestimation. Two general rules, however, are (1) the more volume you do with your resistance workouts the more food, sleep and time off you need (2) the stronger you get, i.e. closer to your genetic potential, the more rest you would need to avoid over-training.

the_m@n said:
Is this the correct strategy for bulking up?
There are many correct strategies.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1689884&postcount=6
This thread is currently right below yours, and is titled "Question about gaining weight"


You're doing better than everyone else, you are going to the gym consistently. Don't worry about actually measuring how much you put on since hardly anyone can use calipers with accuracy and precision. Just observe in the mirror and check to see how well your clothes fit.
 
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