"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Much is Too Much?

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mtlwlu

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I've been trying the "player" lifestyle for about a year now, and have had great success more so than I ever thought possible. I like having more than one plate at a time because then it gets rid of the oneitis we all know and hate. The problem is not to sound ****y or anything but I think I have too many girls on the go, I have a short list of 3 that I can see myself having a long term relationship with and about 3 others that have an outside chance and are more or less just f*** buddies.

How much is too much and more importantly how do eliminate some?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bukowski_merit

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i dont know how much is too much for you. for me - its more than 3. ive heard 5 referred to as the magic number by some. i think its relative to ow much time you can put in.

you get rid of extras by weeding out the ones you dont want.... i know - thats too basic.... but sit down and rank them or something... and get rid of some of the excess. i personally keep 3... and get rid of them them if they start acting up, or being in any way unpleasant to be around on a consistent bases... i also rank our sexual compatibility at the very top of keepin a woman or not.
 
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One woman does it for me nowadays.

But if you are at the point in your development where having multiple women does it for you, I can speak from experience that 3 is the magic number.

Especially if you can bring out their bisexual sides ;).
 
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Kevin Feng

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I found that managing more than 3 girls becomes a drain, especially when you're trying to build your life/career in addition. There just simply isn't time.

For me right now, I've really scaled back on the pick up and focus more on the career right now, between

1. The Job
2. Real Estate Investing
3. staying in shape

The only real free time I have is at night on the weekends and I try to stick to cold approach pick up since it keeps my game sharp.

So to answer your question, ask yourself what's really important in life right now and focus on that, sex is great..... but it isn't everything and more importantly, it probably isn't enhancing your passive value.
 
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