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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How much hotter does makeup make women?

Belmar2009

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It seems to me only about 1 to 2 points, and maybe the occassional 3.

That "6" you see at the gym with little or no makeup on is probably a 7 or 8 when she is all done up.

That hot 9 you see out at the club, is probably in reality more like a 7 when she is lounging around the house.

I know some women have such great skin, they don't really need makeup, but they are the minority.

I think this is GOOD for all DJ's to know because the woman you think is SOOOOOOO Hot, is just an average looking chick in the morning.....NO NEED TO PUT THEM ON A PEDASTAL!!!
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I personally like when they don't wear make up. To me it shows their confident in how they look w/o it. :D

EDIT: and sometimes they dont even need it. ;)
 

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I agree a lot of the time they don't need it. If they do use it, I prefer they keep it down to a subtle effect. I hate unnatural effects like very red lips, or that thing where they outline their lips with a darker color, looks really weird. Anyway, how makeup affects their hotness depends on the girl, I would say.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74 said:
Heh crazy link. Though any sane person would realize that the makeup shot's look like "glamor" photos and the non-make up look like mug shots.

Going down the list, the older women are more affected by make up. The younger girls; not so much.

BTW I think Katie Holmes "before" shot is not actually a natural shot because she looks cuter than in her "after" shot.

Brooke Hogan, Halle Berry, Gisele Bundchen, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Jessica Biel, Jessica Alba (if her mouth was closed) and a couple others still look hot.

But yeah, make up can raise a girls score 2-3 points.
 
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A lot of women look distinctly average without make up, but I like women who aren't obsessed with make up and can happily go outside without slapping make up on. However, I am not a fool and realise that make up to a woman is like hair gel to a man. If a man is off to a nightclub, he's gonna style his hair, make sure he smells nice and some men even wear up. :down:

We are all narcissistic in one way or another.
 
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