"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how much has your hometown changed?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
i heard how bad is the homeless situation.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
That’s always been an issue. But it’s worse now. SF is being overrun with coyotes (the animal) and even the occasional mountain lion. So. Perhaps they will cull the herd.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Plan on moving?
Hamurabimbi
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I’m not directly affected by this. And there are plenty of nice places to hang out in the Bay Area without going to SF or it’s sister sh!t-hole: Oakland.
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The Rio Grande Valley (Brownsville, Harlingen, and McAllen are biggest cities) has a massive problem with obesity.
Doctors react to Rio Grande Valley metro area's ranking as most obese city in the country
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The Rio Grande Valley (Brownsville, Harlingen, and McAllen are biggest cities) has a massive problem with obesity.
Doctors react to Rio Grande Valley metro area's ranking as most obese city in the country
The McAllen, Edinburg and Mission metro area is ranked as the fattest cities in America, according to a new Wallethub study.
lol cmon man….You have to try our tacos bro…it’s the best in the state.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Tacos look good. Yes, the Rio Grande Valley is known for great tacos and amazing Mexican food overall.
In Texas, the areas closest to the border have the best authentic Mexican food. There are plenty of good, authentic Mexican options in Dallas-Fort Worth, Austin, Houston, and San Antonio too. Of the big metro areas, I think San Antonio likely has the best Mexican food.
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Tacos Junior on Sheridan Ave right on the Denver city line. It seems that you have to speak Spanish there though, LOL.
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Speaking of Colorado....Hows the situation there in Aurora? Are there really a bunch of Venezuelan Gangsters taking over apartments? Just wondering
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.