"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How much fighting is normal

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I haven't been in too many relationships The few I have been have not turned out to be that bad. But I just wanted to know, how much arguing in normal, in a new relationship? I would just get up and leave but this couple that lives with me just argue and argue. It's not about anything important just stupid sh!t. My mom likes it though I told the couple to just shut up and my mom told me to shut up and added more fuel to the fire. I'm indifferent and think they are both young stupid and wrong but my mom is a gossiper. So I want to know how much should a new couple argue? Every five minutes is not normal to me. BTW they hit each other and the guy makes claims to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry You couldn't understand that but you got the gist. I'm not paying rent though, we all live with my mom. I just have to take charge sometimes. That sh!t gets old. My mom just listens to them argue and interject I tell them to shut up. I even had to tell my mom to shut up after she told me to shut up. She loves this stuff she's a women I hated it I need sleep.
 
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Men have less tolerance for stupid shyt than women!!! Where is your dad? He is obviosly not in the household!!!
 
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Nope he was abusive and my mom left him years ago . I'm 21 and this guy who is abusive is 21. I don't handle this stupid sh!t much . I'm indifferent to fighting, and don't mind too but I might have to take this guy out. Not because the girl but because where I'm at It's four in the morining, and because this is in my house and I will have to enforce rules if necessary.
 
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Chosen1 said:
I haven't been in too many relationships The few I have been have not turned out to be that bad. But I just wanted to know, how much arguing in normal, in a new relationship? I would just get up and leave but this couple that lives with me just argue and argue. It's not about anything important just stupid sh!t. My mom likes it though I told the couple to just shut up and my mom told me to shut up and added more fuel to the fire. I'm indifferent and think they are both young stupid and wrong but my mom is a gossiper. So I want to know how much should a new couple argue? Every five minutes is not normal to me. BTW they hit each other and the guy makes claims to her.
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A small amount is OK, anything over is NOT.
If the want to fight, stay out of their way, DO NOT get involved, let them kill each other.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A small amount is OK, anything over is NOT.
If the want to fight, stay out of their way, DO NOT get involved, let them kill each other.
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This may sound crazy but I don't pay rent but this is my house too. I will kick @ss if necessary. If I here one more get off of me I'm going to go off. I hate complaining about it but that's what happens when 2 mentally unstable people get together. Well, I'm going to go play Rampage and try to get some sleep night.
 
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Learn the difference between arguing and disagreements and you'll be alright.
 
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