"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how much does visible wealth matter?

beastmaster79

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i am curious how much you guys think that visible wealth matters to women.

is it worth buying nice cars and nice watches and things?

is dressing well with nice fitting clothes enough or will super expensive clothes make a huge difference?

or is showing that you care so much about wealth and luxury a turn-off for everyone but golddiggers?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigjohnson

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Prowess that leads to financial comfort seems to be a turn on, I'm not sure whether the money is the draw or just the way they can see the score in the game. It's in their firmware though.

I'm not sure if the same level of attraction would hold for someone who's got a well-to-do Daddy.

That's the software they can't get rid of. ;) Run with it.
 

rushing dude 123

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I think dressing nice does play a huge part, but it dosn't necessairly have to be expensive clothing, u can still look good in some not very expensive clothes. Don't go buying any expensive cars just for chicks though, if u like the ride then by all means get it. Also if u do maybe get it second hand Like the audi TT my friend said he could get it £5000- £6000 ($10000-12000) second hand and its a good car. Guys who r not exactlly rich pull girls fine, the expensive route is a road u can go down to get girls, which i am not even sure would work, but how about just dressing nice and improve ur game and have a hell lot more cash in ur pocket :D.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Women who look for men with the nicest and most exspensive looking things are gold diggers. Or too materialistic. So, they all want what you got!! Is that the kind of girl you want to have? If she don't like your beat up old a$$ broke down car then, she aint for you. What you do want to do is dress nice. Doesn't have to be exspensive but, you want your clothes to look good. You should want a girl who likes you for who you are. Not, what you got!
 

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48 laws of power:

Law 6
Court Attention at all Cost ​
Everything is judged by its appearance; what is unseen counts for nothing. Never let yourself get lost in the crowd, then, or buried in oblivion. Stand out. Be conspicuous, at all cost. Make yourself a magnet of attention by appearing larger, more colorful, more mysterious, than the bland and timid masses.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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