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Don Juan
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Does working out make a big difference with girls and how people treat you? Do girls treat you differently, do they show more interest or approach?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ahh that's awesome bro. I've heard so many different opinions on how lifting changes things and some guys are like ohh it makes a night and day difference then others say not so much.In December I hired a physical trainer. I was dating 3 girls at the time and all 3 definitely noticed. All 3 said I looked much better. One said I glowed (after 3 sessions), one made love to me (after 5 sessions) and started saying she loved me (after about 20 sessions), and the third said I looked so much tighter (after about 10 sessions). That was before the recent 10 pound weight loss (after 75 sessions). Now I find myself revisiting girls who I didn't think I had a chance with last year. Definitely do it. I pay $150 per week for 3 one hour sessions.
It makes à difference.. In how you feel about yourself... Just that increase your value.Ahh that's awesome bro. I've heard so many different opinions on how lifting changes things and some guys are like ohh it makes a night and day difference then others say not so much.
Bro. $150 a week? $600 a month????????? To get trained? I don't even....In December I hired a physical trainer. I was dating 3 girls at the time and all 3 definitely noticed. All 3 said I looked much better. One said I glowed (after 3 sessions), one made love to me (after 5 sessions) and started saying she loved me (after about 20 sessions), and the third said I looked so much tighter (after about 10 sessions). That was before the recent 10 pound weight loss (after 75 sessions). Now I find myself revisiting girls who I didn't think I had a chance with last year. Definitely do it. I pay $150 per week for 3 one hour sessions.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So what would you say is the ideal body type to attract girls, starting from me being on the skinnier side.It makes à difference.. In how you feel about yourself... Just that increase your value.
Do you have to be a body builder? No, that might even reduce your chances lol...extremes
I noticed that when I was a bit choppier.. girls would say hi to me more often...
Now, they do les... but escalation has jumped high (they touching me more)
Workout is good, for your health Health wil improve your life, your game, your social life
Yeah I'm on the skinny side, I've been told and rated facially attractive but I deeply feel that my body is not good enough and it keeps me from getting girls.Training should be one of the most important things in your life. Don't lift to get women, I do it for myself. Of course it makes a big difference. Would you want a woman who is inactive?
The pic is me, 22 years ago. I don't look that lean anymore, but I train 6 days a week and love it.
I don't do a lot of personal training anymore. I train a few smoking hot women and charge them $275 a month. I am cheap because there are....hot chicks, lol.
I prep competitive bodybuilders and MMArtsist (several turned pro). I also teach M Arts.
One of my guys will be on stage tomorrow. I also write for Blogs and PED websites (you most certainly should NOT be using PEDs.....but in the competitive world they are rampant). I help people restore their endocrine system after steroids.
I do internet training (programs I design for people) but I do not think SOSUAVE would allow me to get business from this site. I am here to vet my book and help people. Also, the DJ Bible is an absolutely fantastic reading resource. My own program integrates a good chunk of material from the Bible.
You need more mass than. Aim at "appropriate" for your height.Yeah I'm on the skinny side, I've been told and rated facially attractive but I deeply feel that my body is not good enough and it keeps me from getting girls.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How much does it affect your T bro, you're saying it makes you go after women more?Another benefit we haven't mentioned on this thread is it naturally boost your T which will make you feel like approaching women. To get this effect you will need heavy weights and compound exercises which fits nicely with your goal of bulking
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
As a prepper, I have a gallon of Vitamin C powder in stock. Tell me how your product is unique from pure Vitamin C powder from Now brand? Just added some to my smoothie. Or organic berries as I noted I added to my diet?Bro. $150 a week? $600 a month????????? To get trained? I don't even....
I told you in the other thread. I am older than you, but look at my pics in your physique thread. I look mid 30s. That is due in large part because of vit C and lysine. For $45 a month, you could take the C load for post workout and the C energize for pre workout and do much MUCH more for your body than the $600 is doing or you. Read what I said. I take it religiously and have never felt better. And I cannot begin to tell you how good it is for your skin and immunity. I can even get you a free container as a bonus. www.c-fitlife.com
I would imagine diet is the difference. I've had a good diet since 1996....some guys are like ohh it makes a night and day difference then others say not so much.
How much would you say it increases your test tho is it like a really big increase when you start lifting?More testosterone you have the more action-oriented you'll be. You'll be doubting yourself over approaching some girl and then you ll feel that internal push, say f*** this and walk over and say hi
It's different because my products have tons of things in them BESIDES the 3 grams of Vit C per dose. For example, each product also has 2-3 grams of lysine and proline amino acids, and those are KEY to getting the maximum effect from the vitamin C. They work hand in hand. The C is greatly enhanced by those two things. For skin, arteries, weight loss, muscle gain. Buying those alone would easily cost you another $50 a month.As a prepper, I have a gallon of Vitamin C powder in stock. Tell me how your product is unique from pure Vitamin C powder from Now brand? Just added some to my smoothie. Or organic berries as I noted I added to my diet?
Yeah I've been told and rated by ppl that I'm a 7 facially so I'm wondering if lifting and getting bigger would help bc first off I probably have the lowest confidence possible. The diet man is really what I'm trying to figure out and get locked down before i start. I have no problem buying the food or having enough. Also lots of people have told me to take creatine everyday, preworkout and stuff like that. Do you agree?I would imagine diet is the difference. I've had a good diet since 1996.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.