"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How Much Does Fashion Matter?

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Neonbase. Love the signature.

Also, black jeans get extremely hot/heavy when the weather gets a little warm. If you're going to wear black pants, try going with some dress pants, they're much lighter, although they might not go well with the shirts you wear.

I guess I'm just tired of the preppy look that people wear, which is why I've started working on my "you look like you're going to a wedding" look.

Rowing_Mike: If by big headed you mean ****y, then yes, I am. Also, I'm not quite sure where you get the stressed out part.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fashion matters alot in my opinion!

i also think that you need to dress according to your physique! If you are well built you can get away with wearing fairly tight T-shirts which show off your build!

Neon base.... your red jumper is ok..but don't wear black jeans with it!!!they suck! wear pale blue jeans!!

Silka..gota hand it to you i like your style! apart from the sunglasses lol!you cant wear them everywere! though in my opinion youve got to mix it up a little!

wearing jumpers without nothing underneath is kool....look at 'seth' out of the 'o.c'! i think hes got a cool fashion sense
 

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hah yeah those sunglasses are my "I'm too cool for you" shades. I usually have them hangin from a pocket or something
 

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Cowhead418 said:
The reason I ask this is because I've never really paid a whole lot of attention to what I wear. That's not to say I don't try to dress well and look nice, but I've never really put much thought into the clothing that I wear. While reading some of the 'self-improvement' threads, I saw plenty of fashion advice.

Now, what I wear goes against much of the advice I saw here. I don't wear jeans or polo-shirts because I find them to be uncomfortable. I am a huge White Sox fan (Major League baseball team) so after they won the World Series last year every day I would come to school wearing a different White Sox shirt. There were plenty of people who commented on me only wearing one type of shirt but I either ignored them or told them to go to hell if they said they didn't like it.

On a final note, I was surprised by the "don't show your socks" advice - is it really that big of a deal? I find the ankle socks to be horribly uncomfortable compared to the longer socks. Also, I've never thought of socks as being even remotely important to fashion as long as they weren't too long or too noticeable.

My question is, how important is fashion to you and am I wrong for having a "I don't give a ****" type attitude towards it? I don't really need to build up confidence through my clothing because I'm comfortable in the way I look and the clothes I wear.
Fashion is incrediably crucial. You need to dress well, and comfortably. It'll can make you look stunning; some shirts make you look like a bum, whereas other shirts make you look like a million dollars.

So wear something nice, comfortable, and something that strikes your tastes.

Then, go out there and have a good time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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