How much does character really mean?

[knglerxt]

I've come to the conclusion that character really doesn't mean very much when it comes to getting women. It seems like for guys it's all about what comes out of your mouth. You could be a serial killer, and if you know how to talk to people you could get women left and right.

 

[Nighthawk]

Women aren't looking to reward a saint with their pussy. They want to have fun.

 

[knglerxt]

They want to have fun.

Yeah. But fun at the expense of dating a lousy person?

 

[Nighthawk]

Depends how you define lousy.

 

[knglerxt]

Maybe it's just me, but someone's character plays a big role in whether I associate with them or not. I guess a lot of women don't think this way.

 

[knglerxt]

Depends how you define lousy.

Well, I've seen guys that don't have jobs, have no ambition, are drug addicts, yet they somehow still get women. They can't get a job, but they can get a woman.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Its not what you say or how you act. It's what you do.

 

[Nighthawk]

Some people without jobs are more fun than some people with jobs. You'd disqualify a hot woman because she didn't have a job?

Some women enjoy drugs too.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I've come to the conclusion that character really doesn't mean very much when it comes to getting women. It seems like for guys it's all about what comes out of your mouth. You could be a serial killer, and if you know how to talk to people you could get women left and right.

You're character/personality is the most important thing. It doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it. A girl doesn't have sex with you because of your fancy C&F line, she does because of who you are, because she thinks of you as higher value and she wants your acceptance/validation.

 

[knglerxt]

Some people without jobs are more fun than some people with jobs. You'd disqualify a hot woman because she didn't have a job?

Some women enjoy drugs too.

Yeah. But you have to weigh the pros and cons. They may be a fun person, but what if they're also an *******? To me, being fun doesn't make up for being an *******. I'm not going to have anything to do with the person.

 

[Nighthawk]

Define asshole. Which is what I'm guessing you typed.

Anyway, some women like a challenge and enjoy drama. They are not all angels you know.

 

[backbreaker]

why do you guys go to the deepend of each side of the argument?

a KILLER.. THAN a SAINT.... big *******...every woman on earth wants to **** you...

Well, I've seen guys that don't have jobs, have no ambition, are drug addicts, yet they somehow still get women. They can't get a job, but they can get a woman.

there are over 3 billion women on earth. 5th teir women find 5th tier guys attractive. I can tell you this... women I **** with wouldn't look at a guy like this twice. they have their **** together.

I can go to a trailer park, pull out a good looking chick and just because somehow.. she is physically attractive, guys think that whatever apeaises her is the status Quo. This cvnt could be a meth addict that loves to have gangbangs, but all most of you care about is how she looks. I'm sure she is going to have other meth head guys chasing her. and is probably going to be attracted to a meth head.

so the "logical" conclusion for msot guys, at least here, is that you have to be a meth head to get women.

Out of all the women I have ****ed, dated, met.. I haven't met ONE who was of high quality who didn't associate herself with other high quality men. Not necessarly high paying jobs, but men who have good character, who are financialy independant and secure, or at the very least, had dreams that he was chasing that promised financial freedom. The woman that works at Intel as a business account manager, with a size C cup and has legs longer than my body with long blonde hair and a perfect smile, who works out every other day, has hobbies and is an all around good woman is not dating Son of Sam...

 

[speakeasy]

I've come to the conclusion that character really doesn't mean very much when it comes to getting women. It seems like for guys it's all about what comes out of your mouth. You could be a serial killer, and if you know how to talk to people you could get women left and right.

You overgeneralize too much. Character matters more to women as they get to marriage and settling down age. Character even matters to younger women if they were raised with values and maybe some religious upbringing. I mean I've known girls who wouldn't date a guy unless he comes from her religious background and is a strong believer. Not all women are looking for a bad boy with tattoos and muscles.

 

[reset]

Seems like asking if girls care about character is the wrong question. Whether or not you believe character counts in your everyday life, that's the right question.

 

[danielzxc]

I've come to the conclusion that character really doesn't mean very much when it comes to getting women. It seems like for guys it's all about what comes out of your mouth. You could be a serial killer, and if you know how to talk to people you could get women left and right.

It's not that it "doesn't matter", it's just that it doesn't matter as much as other considerations. Or if it does matter as much (or more), it, over the length of a seduction "episode" (which can last seconds to weeks, even months) gets trumped by other factors.

And of course, just because this appears to be the case for some women, doesn't mean it's the case for all, or even most, women. Really, there's no way to objectively quantify any of this; we can only rely on anecdotes. Just be aware that when you are relying on anecdotal evidence that there exists a very large possibility you could be dead fkkking wrong.

Now, for the women who don't seem to be so concerned about character, you've gotta realize that most of them probably aren't very deep or forward-looking thinkers. I mean, quite likely ,a lot of them have never even considered the long-term potential of guys they fkk--and if they just wanna fkk, well, duh, why would they? Of course, these one nighters often develop into ltr's, and kids even result. By then, though, the chick isn't thinking rationally at all; whatever "thinking" she does do is just a rationalization of her feelings ("but I love him..."). Remember, ours is a society that discourages (and denounces) 'judgementalism' at every turn; but since selecting better longterm partners requires being judgemental, it's no wonder that in the absence of judgementalism so many ill-fated hookups occur. (Longterm planners and thinkers are the ones who pay the price for such foolishness, shortsightedness and the reckless procreation that often results, but that seems to the cost of living in a free society.)

 

[Street_Fighter]

character is your destiny..a shietty character will only get you soo far in life,then it smacks you in the face when you have piled up enough shiet on it.
A good character and being has more rewards then one and woman will be only a minor role in it,of course when a person is in lack..it becomes more like 90%...I say it's always better to have a strong character and to be of noble virtues then to have all the virtues in the world but with a shiesty character..makes sense?


just because a man does right dosen't always make him right,he can be made of completly wrong doing-though we are blinded by the right hes does in the face of the public.Character is what you do when no one is looking...

I can haz teh cookie?

 

[Street_Fighter]

lol there's only one thing you need to be really good at with girls..deciphering all this shiet isn't one of them..

*insert winking emotican here please*
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