"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How much do you value your freedom?

How free do you want to be?

  • Tie me down and spank me!

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • A secure job, a loving HB8 wife, and a house in the 'burbs!

    Votes: 6 28.6%
  • One foot in the fire, one hand holding a bucket of water

    Votes: 7 33.3%
  • Real men gamble with their lives

    Votes: 8 38.1%

  • Total voters
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diplomatic_lies

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How much do you want to be "free"?

I'm not referring to flag-waving American "freedom", but rather, your personal social freedom. For instance, would you accept the security of a low-paying job over a high-paying high-risk job? If you're over the age of 40, would you prefer to marry a HB8, instead of waiting around for that HB9?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spider_007

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i wish i had the freedom to join the army (my mother would track me down in the middle of iraq to bring me warm soup:( )
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
i wish i had the freedom to join the army (my mother would track me down in the middle of iraq to bring me warm soup:( )
Ha, you've got a good mother mate.

We get scowls from ours if we dare walk in to the same room as her :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by TheRelic
Ha, you've got a good mother mate.

We get scowls from ours if we dare walk in to the same room as her :rolleyes:
LUCKY BASTARD!!!! :p
 

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One foot in the fire, one hand holding a bucket of water
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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I've always been a gambler..... The idea of a decent 9-5 job, a wife and a house in the burbs turns my stomach.

I'm out to take all or nothing with my career choice. might work out, might not.


I'll die trying, either way.
 

Visceral

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Depends on how you define freedom: free to act or free from need?
 

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I am as free as society permits.

I own my own business: nobody in charge of me.

I don't own a credit card: banks don't own me, I have no obligation to them.

I have a prepaid mobile: I'm not compelled to spend set amount of time with any company.

I earn good money: freedom from want.

I don't have any debt: freedom from obligation

I'm a trained fighter: freedom from fear.

I have a harem: freedom from boredom, freedom from bullsh*t (they know if they give me sh*t they won't see me for ages).

Basically nothing holds me down, nothing holds me back. I could leave town tomorrow - or even tonight if I decided - and there's no loose ends to worry about, no money owed to anyone, nothing that means I have to stick around.
 

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none of those options is me, gambling is stupid and the othe stuff is so conformist.

GO N LIVE UR CONFORMIST LIVES, u conformists, with your conformist friends and conforming family !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nocturnal

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Originally posted by manuva
I am as free as society permits.

I own my own business: nobody in charge of me.

I don't own a credit card: banks don't own me, I have no obligation to them.

I have a prepaid mobile: I'm not compelled to spend set amount of time with any company.

I earn good money: freedom from want.

I don't have any debt: freedom from obligation

I'm a trained fighter: freedom from fear.

I have a harem: freedom from boredom, freedom from bullsh*t (they know if they give me sh*t they won't see me for ages).

Basically nothing holds me down, nothing holds me back. I could leave town tomorrow - or even tonight if I decided - and there's no loose ends to worry about, no money owed to anyone, nothing that means I have to stick around.
You are ignoring the important one: freedom of choice. You have the choice to get a credit card, it is not an obligation. That is the freedom that matters. Under that assumption, you have the complete right not to get a credit card, but why wouldn't you? The benefits outweigh the risks in most cases, in my opinion.

That is just one example. It sounds like it is not freedom that is important to you, but safety, that you want the freedom to avoid risk and obligation as much as possible. But no one ever got anywhere without taking risks, remember that. Just because you have the right to do something doesn't make it rational to do it.
 

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We shouldn't have to compromise our safety in order to do things - doing so strikes me as stupidity, not courage.

EX: Donald Trump can risk millions because he has billions to fall back on - do you honestly think he'd risk just as much if it was all he had?

Some people are watching too much TV and movies ... this is the real world; there will be no miraculous turn of events if you screw up.
 

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Originally posted by Visceral
We shouldn't have to compromise our safety in order to do things - doing so strikes me as stupidity, not courage.
No one should have to compromise their invidividual safety --but they should have the right to do so if they choose to.

Donald Trump can choose to risk millions -- or choose not to. That is his freedom.

On a broader scale, such as "national security," freedom should always take precedence over safety. Always. Individual rights are uncompromisable. And safety is not guaranteed... that is the price that comes with existence.
 
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