"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how much do you have in school loans?

Zaraza

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Im 20 and am going into second year of college. Last year i was awarded some grants because i did not earn enough money, since then i got a raise and made a little extra and now i was only awarded loans. In order to get through this year i will have to talk around 10k - 13 k in loans. After this year i will be applying into nursing school and will require more loans, i want to know what you guys went through. How much loans did you graduate with? Was it difficult to pay off? Any advice that you have for me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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At least with health care you can get a job. Liberal Arts majors have no sympathy for you. They graduate with debt and very few job prospects.
 

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I went to community college for my first 2 years and only had financial aid beginning the 2nd year. Now I'm in my 3rd year at a 4-year institution and the loans should start adding up from now on..
 
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