"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How much do you drink?

How much do you drink?


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PRMoon

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I drink a ton. I still work the night life scene so sometimes I drink to excess with my clients. I have a few limo drivers on speed dial so I don't have to worry about drunk driving and I've been drinking long enough where I know what and how to drink to avoid getting a hang over. On the social level I drink A LOT.

On the private side though, back at mi casa and what not, I may have a single ****tail or beer at home to wind down the day with dinner and usually that's it. No matter how long you've been drinking, it's never a good idea to drink excessively for prolonged periods of times. I've seen what alcohol dependancy will do to you an it's not pretty. One of my long time promoters was drinking at least a 750ml bottle of something every damned day since he was 20. He died of liver failure at 30 and it was a gruesome death. Everything just kinda shut down progressively. If you drink too much you won't be able to enjoy that which makes alcohol pleasurable. It relaxes you and makes for great conversation. When you over do it, things start going wrong in one way or another almost one hundred precent of the time.

I really enjoy the taste of liquor. I'll cook jim beam into some ribs up something fierce! I like the even flavor of alcohol and how it literally takes your breath away, but like most things this is something I acquired over time. Most people I know will never make it there. Chasers for shots, drinking for confidence and just to be wasted, all of these are not good reasons to drink. Drink responsibly, with intelligence, and with confidence.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't really enjoy the taste of liquor, but liek rollo said, when I drink, it's becuase I want the effect that it's goin to bring at that particular time. I don't like being a drunk bar hopper, but I like to have a couple of drinks in me at a good football game. makes it good n fun.

I live in a house full of drinks (my GF has a watermelon smirnoff fetish) and I will bypass it and drink grape juice. I love grape juice.
 
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you are an alcholic int he making. and i'm dead serious. you need to be careful.

How so, oh wise one? You seem to be the expert with your average 2 drinks per year.
 

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. For me, it's a way to escape reality and enjoy myself more than I would otherwise.
that's not the way someone who only has 2 drinks a year talks. I'm a recovering addict myself, i"m not calling you out but I don't want anyone to go though the crap I had to go though, if I have to ruffle your feathers, i'd rather be wrong about you and say something than be right and say nothing.
 
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