“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

How much do you bench press?

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
Originally Posted by Mintyfresh
Personally I've been benching every other day for the past 2 years. I'm naturally pretty bulky and muscular and around 180 lbs. Yet despite all this I'm still only putting up 3 sets of 155 @ 10 reps before muscle failure.
Warboss Alex said:
okay, who's gonna get to this first.. Throttle, EFFORT, Espi, mrRuckus?

*takes bets*
If you worked me out every other day i'd probably crawl off your arms and down Alex's throat so as a muscle i could at least be put to use instead of being beaten into the ground like a slave. Alex at least allows me breaks and feeds me. And looks at me in the mirror and kisses me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,222
Location
The Dirty South
5'10", 200 lbs. Heed the following warning:

Back in my heyday about 2 years ago, I was weighing around 190 lbs., I could put up 270 2 or 3 times with good form. Then, my ego went thru the roof. The form went out the window, I wanted poundages. I started doing VERY low reps only with huge weight. Long story short, I developed a bigger left side of my chest and a torn right rotator cuff, when has handicapped my upper body development for over a year.

Now, I'm just now starting to get healed completely. I'm 26, and now have to use dumbbells and can't bring them down all the way.

Your body won't last forever. I say forget the heavy weight and stretch like crazy every workout, especially if you're just workout to stay in shape. Injuries suck, and are prevalent among bench pressers.
 

Pakwah

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2003
Messages
202
Reaction score
2
Location
Brandon
I dunno. i am about 145 and 5' 11"i usually can do 140x12
thats what my first rep is, than i usually will lower it to 120 or so and do 2 reps of 8-10. dunno where i stack.....
 

synergy1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2006
Messages
1,984
Reaction score
192
most of you guys are skinnier than me ( 5' 10" - 180 lb) , and most of the guys at my gym, and most of you bench considerably more than they and I do.
 

THE_ADDMAN

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2005
Messages
816
Reaction score
5
Age
39
Location
Newmarket, Ontario
5'6 165 lbs.

205x5 or so on incline bench. flat? not sure.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
5'9 150lbs

PR: 190x3
Currently: 170x5

Working on form...
 

TheNewGuy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2005
Messages
529
Reaction score
0
I weigh around 140 and bench 150x5, squat 185x5 and deadlift around 195x5.
 

Quiksilver

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2006
Messages
2,813
Reaction score
55
5'9 at 160lbs

I only do DB bench(incline, flat).

Up to 70s on both sides


incline is at 70lbsx7rx2s...

same thing for flat

doing dips with 195lbs(bw + 35) now :)
 

blinkwatt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2005
Messages
1,904
Reaction score
7
Age
38
blinkwatt said:
Barbell;

-in three sets, 185x10,205x8,225x5(trying for 8),for some reason when I go barbell I only want to go heavy.
For some reason today I did 4 sets benching on the barbell,probably because this thread made me realize that I don't do 4 sets on the barbell often.

185x12,195x10,195x9(trying for 10),205x7(tyring for 8)
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

danielzxc

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2006
Messages
462
Reaction score
5
Location
Australia
shaunuk said:
What the hell, 240lbs on the bench press ain't that much, and all it takes to reach 9% body fat is gentle dieting and cardio (9% is very lean but not out of this world). What's the problem with Salvatore's claim, I believe him...

-shaun
Dkkhead, it's that he reckons he's 215 at 9%. It's no big deal to be 215. But to be it at 9% -- at HIS height -- is one HELL of an achievement. One that few naturals in history have ever achieved -- and even those I would be skeptical of.
 

danielzxc

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2006
Messages
462
Reaction score
5
Location
Australia
speed dawg said:
5'10", 200 lbs. Heed the following warning:

Back in my heyday about 2 years ago, I was weighing around 190 lbs., I could put up 270 2 or 3 times with good form. Then, my ego went thru the roof. The form went out the window, I wanted poundages. I started doing VERY low reps only with huge weight. Long story short, I developed a bigger left side of my chest and a torn right rotator cuff, when has handicapped my upper body development for over a year.

Now, I'm just now starting to get healed completely. I'm 26, and now have to use dumbbells and can't bring them down all the way.

Your body won't last forever. I say forget the heavy weight and stretch like crazy every workout, especially if you're just workout to stay in shape. Injuries suck, and are prevalent among bench pressers.

Good advice, but few will listen.

Bench is one of the most injury prone exercises you can do. I'd love to have a big bench, but when I think of the risks, FKK IT. Let the fat azz powerlifters get their kicks loading up the plates. I stick to higher reps. So what if i'll never bench 300.

Advice: Any shoulder pain that feels like it is 'deep inside' the shoulder, for God's sakes, stop benching. Or stop going as low, and start taking a narrower grip.
 

simon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 24, 2004
Messages
620
Reaction score
7
Location
England
So many people get injured benching because they don't know how to do it properly. A safe bench press involves you arching your back, pinching your shoulder blades together, squeezing your lats, using leg drive etc etc. It's a whole body exercise, but over the years it's been bastardised by bodybuilders so that it puts a lot more pressure on the shoulders than it was ever meant to. It's also prudent to ditch the flat bench and go for incline because it reduces the strain on the shoulders.

Of course, it's critical to maintain good, proper form and not be stupid with the amount of weight you use.
 

Flyer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
393
Reaction score
2
Location
Sydney
simon said:
So many people get injured benching because they don't know how to do it properly. A safe bench press involves you arching your back, pinching your shoulder blades together, squeezing your lats, using leg drive etc etc. It's a whole body exercise, but over the years it's been bastardised by bodybuilders so that it puts a lot more pressure on the shoulders than it was ever meant to. It's also prudent to ditch the flat bench and go for incline because it reduces the strain on the shoulders.

Of course, it's critical to maintain good, proper form and not be stupid with the amount of weight you use.
Got a question.
by logic, am i correct to say that incline bench and flat bench doesnt work the same area of the pecs does it?

i.e. you'd still need to do both types of benching.. am i correct?
 

Throttle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2006
Messages
1,787
Reaction score
11
the two different positions emphasize different parts of your pecs. the whole muscle gets worked either way. if you do both (as so many gym rats are inclined to do) you beat to hell the parts emphasized by both, which is counterproductive.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
danielzxc said:
Dkkhead, it's that he reckons he's 215 at 9%. It's no big deal to be 215. But to be it at 9% -- at HIS height -- is one HELL of an achievement. One that few naturals in history have ever achieved -- and even those I would be skeptical of.
Um. What? It's pretty common.



the two different positions emphasize different parts of your pecs. the whole muscle gets worked either way. if you do both (as so many gym rats are inclined to do) you beat to hell the parts emphasized by both, which is counterproductive.
I don't really see why people have to do flat bench if it's dangerous. There's incline, decline (both bb and db) and dips and even varying degrees of incline and decline. There's plenty of alternative to doing something potentially unhealthy and still being able to build all aspects of a big, strong chest.

And I never believe anybody's bench weights because I rarely see people going very low when they bench. Or their curl numbers for that matter since nearly everyone OBVIOUSLY uses their back for it.
 

Flyer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
393
Reaction score
2
Location
Sydney
mrRuckus said:
Um. What? It's pretty common.





I don't really see why people have to do flat bench if it's dangerous. There's incline, decline (both bb and db) and dips and even varying degrees of incline and decline. There's plenty of alternative to doing something potentially unhealthy and still being able to build all aspects of a big, strong chest.

And I never believe anybody's bench weights because I rarely see people going very low when they bench. Or their curl numbers for that matter since nearly everyone OBVIOUSLY uses their back for it.
how low are you talking about?
till the bar hits your chest low or chin level low..?
 

lookyoung

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2006
Messages
1,303
Reaction score
36
Location
Chicago
mrRuckus said:
Um. What? It's pretty common.
I don't really see why people have to do flat bench if it's dangerous. There's incline, decline (both bb and db) and dips and even varying degrees of incline and decline.
I disagree with this statement. I think incline and decline can be just as dangerous if not more dangerous than Flat bench.

And I never believe anybody's bench weights because I rarely see people going very low when they bench. Or their curl numbers for that matter since nearly everyone OBVIOUSLY uses their back for it.
How much do you bench? Do you workout? On the flatbench I see most people touching there chest.
 

shaunuk

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 18, 2006
Messages
997
Reaction score
9
Location
Leeds, UK
danielzxc said:
Dkkhead, it's that he reckons he's 215 at 9%. It's no big deal to be 215. But to be it at 9% -- at HIS height -- is one HELL of an achievement. One that few naturals in history have ever achieved -- and even those I would be skeptical of.
Mate, a muscular 215 is no big deal even for someone who is 5'8. And 9%, again, is nothing to shout about. However, they are decent numbers, and I bet Salvatore looks great.

-shaun
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
At 5'9, 215 w/ 9% bf, it's very respectable. Difficult? Eh, yeah. Unheard of? Absolutely not.
 
Top