How much conversation before sex ?

[SuperChillies]

this is in the context of a 1 night stand,

Lets say your at a bar and your sitting talking to this chick about anything and everything...

how much do you have to talk to her until she will go with you to get "get breakfast' aka have sex with you that night ?

I mean talk to her about her HOT TOPICS that really interest her...

But what do you think matters, like 20 minutes, 1 hours, all night 3 hours ..

or there is no time limit until she feels completely in trust/ close to you ...


what do you say experts ?

 

[jamescr73]

ive had 1 ons a few years back, and i met her at a bar, probably 20 mins of convo, got her number. Bar closed, we went to an after party. Hung out there for an hour and a half or so, then went to my house. Its not hard to close in less than 2 hours, just wear a rubber

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Good advice, yea...i bet its from 15-20 min. Sounds about right.

 

[Ripper]

"Brace yourself".

 

[Distant Light]

Basically its all about speeding up the whole pickup. Instead of stretching out all this vibing, rapport and stuff. Just keep pumping buying temperature and conveying your personality. If you keep at it for the whole night you could pull them the same night. Only problem is Logistics. You have to get her out of there without losing her. Any small mess up to move her from club to sex location can cause the whole set to end.

I wouldn't really time how much conversation is needed because its not even about the conversation that gets the girl. The thing is you'll just have to do the pickup faster than usual. Kino from the start. Go in for the kiss quickly. Move her around, escalate, move around, attract, attract. (You get the point) When she is all pumpped up start moving closer and closer towards the sex location while still escalating.