"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how much C & F do you use and Neg Hitting?

LongDrinkofWater

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Sometimes conversations flow, sometimes they don't. No formula! Thinking along these lines is setting yourself up for disappointment.

Use your wit, and keep your wits about you....
I'm not too good with the C&F (working on it) yet, but have realized that girls will pick up on your inner self (for lack of a better term) pretty quickly. This is where confidence, EC, kino and other subconscious traits tend to take over. Typically I've stayed candid and open, with a bit of teasing thrown in and have had good results. No formulas, lines or preconcieved notions. However, Sosuave has helped me immensley with understanding ******** and the dynamics of this whole dating game - this is usually whats in the back of my mind when talking to someone. Not any formula, ratio or whatever. Go with the flow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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