"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How much balls do you have?

Bling

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I've been thinking about going up to the hottest chick in our school (who has a boyfriend). She's a senior and her senior bf looks like a douchebag. I feel like daring myself just to approach her and start a convo right in front of him.


I'll do it if someone else does it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soupar

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Don't worry about it dude, just go up and do it. Once you do its all downhill.
 

Soupar

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Stop treating it like that man, its not a big risk at all. Worst case scenario theres an akward silence and you walk away. Best case scenario you bone her.

The reward is much greater than the risk.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Over a year on the board, and you are still scared of rejections...

Skip the first few weeks of the bootcamp, and just go straight into rejections buddy. Stop caring if she is going to fall head over heels for you, just care that you had the balls to approach.

Heck, if another girl sees how confidently you get shot down, she might give you the "come on ova here baby" look and your chances for failure would be slim to none...

Have fun man, even point to her boyfriend, if you start to crack, tell them whats up. Your scared as hell, and you want to know how to be brave enough to approach really hot girls with douchbag boyfriends. They'll probably hook you up with a party.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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When you are at the point where you truly believe that by you talking to a girl, however hot, it is her lucky day and her opportunity to win the prize/screw it up, then it's not a question of balls anymore.
 

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When you are at the point where you truly believe that by you talking to a girl, however hot, it is her lucky day and her opportunity to win the prize/screw it up, then it's not a question of balls anymore.
I agree
 

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Nighthawk said:
When you are at the point where you truly believe that by you talking to a girl, however hot, it is her lucky day and her opportunity to win the prize/screw it up, then it's not a question of balls anymore.
LINE OF THE WEEK
 

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Impressed with the replies guys :) couldn't of said it better myself.
 
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