"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bling

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I've been thinking about going up to the hottest chick in our school (who has a boyfriend). She's a senior and her senior bf looks like a douchebag. I feel like daring myself just to approach her and start a convo right in front of him.


I'll do it if someone else does it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't worry about it dude, just go up and do it. Once you do its all downhill.
 
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Stop treating it like that man, its not a big risk at all. Worst case scenario theres an akward silence and you walk away. Best case scenario you bone her.

The reward is much greater than the risk.
 
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Over a year on the board, and you are still scared of rejections...

Skip the first few weeks of the bootcamp, and just go straight into rejections buddy. Stop caring if she is going to fall head over heels for you, just care that you had the balls to approach.

Heck, if another girl sees how confidently you get shot down, she might give you the "come on ova here baby" look and your chances for failure would be slim to none...

Have fun man, even point to her boyfriend, if you start to crack, tell them whats up. Your scared as hell, and you want to know how to be brave enough to approach really hot girls with douchbag boyfriends. They'll probably hook you up with a party.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When you are at the point where you truly believe that by you talking to a girl, however hot, it is her lucky day and her opportunity to win the prize/screw it up, then it's not a question of balls anymore.
 
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When you are at the point where you truly believe that by you talking to a girl, however hot, it is her lucky day and her opportunity to win the prize/screw it up, then it's not a question of balls anymore.
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I agree
 
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Nighthawk said:
When you are at the point where you truly believe that by you talking to a girl, however hot, it is her lucky day and her opportunity to win the prize/screw it up, then it's not a question of balls anymore.
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LINE OF THE WEEK
 
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Impressed with the replies guys :) couldn't of said it better myself.
 
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