"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How much attention?

Somedude8749

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Hey everyone. So i have this gf who im planning on keeping around for a long time. we have been going out for a little over a month. the thing is i dont think i show her that much attention at school. i stand outside with her in the morining and walk her to her bus at the end of the day, thats about it. i do see her during the day in the halls. is there more that i should do or what? thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Drumstick

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As long as you hang out on the weekend that should probably be fine. You don't need to spend every second together, that would be bad. I think you're doing a pretty good job
 

Vinny Porello

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Sounds like you are doing a good job. A lot of high school couples spend TOO MUCH time together at the start of a relationship and this can make the relationship boring and annoying. You have to show that she isn't the only important thing in your life.
 

The Grey Fox

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I agree with both comments above, couples in high school spend way too much time together, I often see some who look bored out of their skin.

What you are doing right now is good, you are showing you have plenty of other stuff to do and if she wants more of you she's gonna have to earn it :up:
 
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