"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how much attention to pay

mountain

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I'm having trouble understanding how much attention to pay a girl. Some of what I read and experience leads me towards the jerk, or don't pay her much attention, shes no big deal, school of thought... and other reading and experience points that intensily paying her attention works well. It seems like these are mutally exclusive ideas, what am i missing here? I guess its a question of chase or let chase..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wiesman44

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there's no right or wrong answer. Every girl is different. The trick is to be able to gauge how much attention she should get and how much you should ignore her. The right balance will get her coming back for more. Unfortunately, its tough to find that balance.

Good luck !
 
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Simple answer, if she is attracted to you it doesn't matter how much attention you show. My advice, do you have a life? If not, get one. If you have a life, you can't show her attention 24/7 becausse you got stuff to do, make sense?
 
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