I'm having trouble understanding how much attention to pay a girl. Some of what I read and experience leads me towards the jerk, or don't pay her much attention, shes no big deal, school of thought... and other reading and experience points that intensily paying her attention works well. It seems like these are mutally exclusive ideas, what am i missing here? I guess its a question of chase or let chase..
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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