"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how much attention to pay?

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there is this girl in my class...like every single one of my classess...ususally she just hangs out with her friends, and i usually uses c&f on her sparingly, and ignores her on purpose sometimes...so the question is, how much attention should i pay to her?

also in a way, she seems to show a really high interest level outside of school, but when inside, she is kinda cold...interesting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by theory of knowledge
also in a way, she seems to show a really high interest level outside of school, but when inside, she is kinda cold...interesting.
I also got that before!!
 

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I think thats just people in general act different when there out side of school then when there in it
 
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