After you learn the basics and important aspects of DJing like confidence, how to meet women, body language, kino, etc. How much time do you guys spend on the site? This is for the guys who pull really gorgeous girls. Do you think its good to keep your skills fine tuned and read articles for an hour each day? your thoughts?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How miuch time do you spend on this site?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I spend a while on here, even though I don't know why, it seems posts are ignored for the most part and there are few remaining concrete threads being made...
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I think its good to still look at articles...so longs your going out more than your actually reading then its fine, because you can always improve areas of your game, no matter how good you are.
There are periods where I don't read much and then times where I'll probably spend a day reading through a book...(Books like Red Queen, Sperm wars, The power of now, etc.)
Also its always fun hearing things and just going out and trying it the next day for a new experience.
Take Shock and Awe for example...(For those who don't know about it go look for it NOW) you read about it and basically say "Hey I'll try this" and you have fun with it.
There are periods where I don't read much and then times where I'll probably spend a day reading through a book...(Books like Red Queen, Sperm wars, The power of now, etc.)
Also its always fun hearing things and just going out and trying it the next day for a new experience.
Take Shock and Awe for example...(For those who don't know about it go look for it NOW) you read about it and basically say "Hey I'll try this" and you have fun with it.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I usually spend an hour a day, but not to learn something new. I find it important to my game that I'm exposed to DJing on a daily basis because some of my friends have me exposed to AFCness.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I spend way too much time on here. Heck I'm even here when I'm doing homework. I know and understand all the basics but my sticking point is applying what I know, and having the balls to get out of my comfort zone. Basically everything this thread covers. The 3 Keys To Go From Newb to Don Juan I'm not pulling girls yet but I will...
IMO if you have an hour to kill, it's a good idea to come here and keep your skills sharp. Every now and then great advice gets posted. Like this one just recently How could this happen to me?
IMO if you have an hour to kill, it's a good idea to come here and keep your skills sharp. Every now and then great advice gets posted. Like this one just recently How could this happen to me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MMA Juan
Don Juan
I come on here about 4 days a week, round an hour a day. Whilst at work (Like I am now), there are times when I need a break to get away from all the paperwork- why not better use the time than refresh your skills.
Although i have been visiting this forum since I was 15 (am 21 now), I believe you never learn enough. Yes, I know how to play the game and use what this site has taught me over the years, but i believe practice makes perfect, and refreshing yourself from time to time will only improve yourself in becoming your 'better self'.
Although i have been visiting this forum since I was 15 (am 21 now), I believe you never learn enough. Yes, I know how to play the game and use what this site has taught me over the years, but i believe practice makes perfect, and refreshing yourself from time to time will only improve yourself in becoming your 'better self'.