After you learn the basics and important aspects of DJing like confidence, how to meet women, body language, kino, etc. How much time do you guys spend on the site? This is for the guys who pull really gorgeous girls. Do you think its good to keep your skills fine tuned and read articles for an hour each day? your thoughts?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How miuch time do you spend on this site?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I spend a while on here, even though I don't know why, it seems posts are ignored for the most part and there are few remaining concrete threads being made...
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I think its good to still look at articles...so longs your going out more than your actually reading then its fine, because you can always improve areas of your game, no matter how good you are.
There are periods where I don't read much and then times where I'll probably spend a day reading through a book...(Books like Red Queen, Sperm wars, The power of now, etc.)
Also its always fun hearing things and just going out and trying it the next day for a new experience.
Take Shock and Awe for example...(For those who don't know about it go look for it NOW) you read about it and basically say "Hey I'll try this" and you have fun with it.
There are periods where I don't read much and then times where I'll probably spend a day reading through a book...(Books like Red Queen, Sperm wars, The power of now, etc.)
Also its always fun hearing things and just going out and trying it the next day for a new experience.
Take Shock and Awe for example...(For those who don't know about it go look for it NOW) you read about it and basically say "Hey I'll try this" and you have fun with it.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I usually spend an hour a day, but not to learn something new. I find it important to my game that I'm exposed to DJing on a daily basis because some of my friends have me exposed to AFCness.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I spend way too much time on here. Heck I'm even here when I'm doing homework. I know and understand all the basics but my sticking point is applying what I know, and having the balls to get out of my comfort zone. Basically everything this thread covers. The 3 Keys To Go From Newb to Don Juan I'm not pulling girls yet but I will...
IMO if you have an hour to kill, it's a good idea to come here and keep your skills sharp. Every now and then great advice gets posted. Like this one just recently How could this happen to me?
IMO if you have an hour to kill, it's a good idea to come here and keep your skills sharp. Every now and then great advice gets posted. Like this one just recently How could this happen to me?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MMA Juan
Don Juan
I come on here about 4 days a week, round an hour a day. Whilst at work (Like I am now), there are times when I need a break to get away from all the paperwork- why not better use the time than refresh your skills.
Although i have been visiting this forum since I was 15 (am 21 now), I believe you never learn enough. Yes, I know how to play the game and use what this site has taught me over the years, but i believe practice makes perfect, and refreshing yourself from time to time will only improve yourself in becoming your 'better self'.
Although i have been visiting this forum since I was 15 (am 21 now), I believe you never learn enough. Yes, I know how to play the game and use what this site has taught me over the years, but i believe practice makes perfect, and refreshing yourself from time to time will only improve yourself in becoming your 'better self'.