"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Peaks&Valleys

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...post when you've been drinking and/or on drugs?

I know there's some AA's on here that don't drink or do any other $hit, good for you btw :up:

But the rest of you....

As a 37 year old professional :crackup: I have a drink or two pretty much every night...sometimes it leads to three or four.....or whatever.

Most writers take pride in the fact that they drink, it lets the words flow more smoothly. That being said, what's your guys' average BAC when you post on here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haven't touched booze in 7 years. Would never go back... much rather play video games or spend the afternoon over a game of magic cards with friends... nothing good comes of being drunk except lost money, time and braincells.
 

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At 34 years old magic cards are a better investment that going out drinking? Not trying to be a total troll here, just wondering how that is a more enjoyable investment.
 

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Mauser96 said:
Someone "new" or young comes on and asks for advice and 12 guys chime in "dump that biatch" and they are all pissed - drunk......he doesn't know that and does it, when there could have been a simple solution or no solution required.
I agree with you on this one.



I'm not a writer, I was just making an example.
 

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I should probably start drinking more.

If I'm lucky I manage to get totally wasted once a month.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SamTheHobit said:
I should probably start drinking more.

If I'm lucky I manage to get totally wasted once a month.
I would never recommend getting "wasted" although it happens. No need to try to get drunk. Drinking's fine IMO, as long as you have it under control and don't use it as a constant crutch. If you can go out and have fun without drinking, then more power to you.
 
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