"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how manyh women date guys with money?

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Jaylan said:
The women who have dated me, have done so for either my personality or for the physical attraction. Its not hard to pick out the gold digging sluts who are simply with you for the security.
Here we go again with the "if she cares I'm broke she's a ho" theory. Women are hard coded to seek resources the same way men are hard coded to seek youth and fertility. That maximizes the number of offspring who survive.

And how much do you want to bet I'm better looking than you are as well?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigneil said:
However, somewhere along the line women decided to act like men and to insist on the prettiest thing they can find.
That's a good point. Traditionally, and from an evolutionary standpoint, men did not have to be particularly good looking. This is why PUA gurus originally taught that looks didn't matter. Now days many SoSuavers claim that women care about looks more than men do.

I don't believe it has come to that point, but there does appear to have been a sea change. More men are expected to be "pretty" than ever before. Since women can now support themselves (often with the help of the government), they no longer need men for this. So now they want a Channing Tatum or a Ryan Gosling.

It's always struck me as a little funny that guys are okay with being appreciated for their looks (which are a God given gift), but not okay with being appreciated for their money (which is earned through hard work). Dieting and working out aside.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Try dating women with money instead of broke chicks.

It feels amazing when they want to split the bill with you and aren't asking you to spoil them.
its kind of tough

they will spend all the made money on apartment rents/clothes/ restaurants etc

i haven't seen many girls who are rich
 
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Females who come from rich families end up rich. Can us DJ's optimize our game to pull women of means and substance, someone who wants to take care of us?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I certainly think it's possible to land a woman who will support you if that's what you want, I've seen it. You might have to compromise some in the looks department though.

That said, I prefer to maintain my independence and support myself.
 

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bigneil said:
Here we go again with the "if she cares I'm broke she's a ho" theory. Women are hard coded to seek resources the same way men are hard coded to seek youth and fertility. That maximizes the number of offspring who survive.

And how much do you want to bet I'm better looking than you are as well?
The guy with a penchant for strippers (well known to be gold digging skanks) should not be trying to school other men on who quality women will date.

I stand by my earlier post. There are good women out there who are unconcerned with money. I recently dated a woman such as this. She treated me well, didnt care that I wasnt rich...and really only cared about how we clicked. But I cut her lose because I didnt feel we matched up well enough for the long term.

She was a good woman though.

And whats with this quip about you thinking you are better looking than me? Im quite a bit younger than you, Ive got long hair, and a body that makes women wet. So lets not go there. You always go on and on, trying to say women (especially younger women) want older guys like you who have resources. You seem to have an ego issue and want to prove something to yourself. You always look for a way to put down guys who dont attract women the same way you do, and put down women who are drawn to men who are much different from you.

If you are so good looking and so desirable, why do you date women most guys here would consider low quality? You also always try to minimize the reality that women do date men because of how their personalities click or because how their bodies click in bed. Ive had women date me for the sex and/or because we got along so well. Even when I was in college or after college when I had trouble finding work, I still found good women to date.

When you are attractive and fun to be around, thats what happens. You can find women who dont put a premium on resources. And the reality is, I dont want to a date a woman who cares about what I own. Im not trying to find a wife. Im trying to have fun. I get women by being fun, honest, interesting, and fit.
 
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Jaylan said:
The guy with a penchant for strippers (well known to be gold digging skanks) should not be trying to school other men on who quality women will date.

I stand by my earlier post. There are good women out there who are unconcerned with money. I recently dated a woman such as this. She treated me well, didnt care that I wasnt rich...and really only cared about how we clicked. But I cut her lose because I didnt feel we matched up well enough for the long term.

She was a good woman though.

And whats with this quip about you thinking you are better looking than me? Im quite a bit younger than you, Ive got long hair, and a body that makes women wet. So lets not go there. You always go on and on, trying to say women (especially younger women) want older guys like you who have resources. You seem to have an ego issue and want to prove something to yourself. You always look for a way to put down guys who dont attract women the same way you do, and put down women who are drawn to men who are much different from you.

If you are so good looking and so desirable, why do you date women most guys here would consider low quality? You also always try to minimize the reality that women do date men because of how their personalities click or because how their bodies click in bed. Ive had women date me for the sex and/or because we got along so well. Even when I was in college or after college when I had trouble finding work, I still found good women to date.

When you are attractive and fun to be around, thats what happens. You can find women who dont put a premium on resources. And the reality is, I dont want to a date a woman who cares about what I own. Im not trying to find a wife. Im trying to have fun. I get women by being fun, honest, interesting, and fit.
I'm not agreeing with disrespecting BigNeil. But you are kind of right. Stripper game is different from overall women game, but a lot of stripper game is an advanced "hot girl" game. Because "hot girls" do the same games strippers do, they just aren't in a strip club.

Now quality women, and ones who aren't c0ck carouselling, who want to pay their way, take care of their man, etc it's a different game.

Keep in mind some strippers and "hot girls" do want to take care of their man, but they might be extracting resources from another to do so.

So BigNeil's comments are warranted here, because they transfer directly over to "hot girl" game...
 
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