"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many women you guys slept with?

zinc4

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Just wondering...judging by the posts it's very mixed...if you lost count then please just say so.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hate the game..

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Just hit number 27, had sex three times with three new girls last week, its all about having your head in the right place, not drinking too much and being in the proper situation. When you get on a hot streak keep going, for some reason things go well during these times.
 

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Only 4. Starting fresh I had two in the last 4 months after getting out of a LTR.

My goal would be to either hit 10 by the end of next year (should easily be doable if I put my mind to it, could probably significantly surpass that if I play my cards right) or go with Roosh's approach of mini-relationships. I'm not really planning anything, though. Just need to work the number's game a bit more.
 
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5.

I'm vastly inexperienced, I blame having a small penis, a large head and a PS3.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bradd80 said:
40-50. But I really emphasize quality over quantity, so most of these have been pretty hot.
Blimey, your penis must shed as much skin as a lizard.
 

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4th of December i layed #30.

From the new year i am going to keep a journal of FR's and LR's, so that i can share my experience, this time i am going to keep it up to date!
 

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Wow I'm suprised at yalls numbers.

You would think people on this site have high numbers. Good stuff european. When I was 20 my count was around 20.

Even though I was a very late bloomer (Didn't lost my virginity until I was 18) I am in my 50's right now. I never really took count but I know I'm around there.

Every year I sleep with more girls then I have in the previous year. I guess my confidence just went up every year. This year alone I done smashed 17 girls excluding my exes!

However, I hope that I only sleep with one girl for the rest of my life. I'm very happy with my current girlfriend and hopefully I can ride out with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3, Hopefully more In the near future
 

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I'm at 10. Still pretty low in my opinion. Was a virgin until I was 18. Also had a near 6 year LTR, and another lasting about a year and a half.
 

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3. Only because I never have the free crib smh. This one girl just hit me up and she's dtf but guess what?.... No free crib
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bradd80 said:
40-50. But I really emphasize quality over quantity, so most of these have been pretty hot.

damn dude, they said 1 out of 3 women has herpes

that mean you banged at least 15 chicks that had that $hit bro.....


damn I hope you stayed strapped up the whole time
 

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^^ I've done double that, not sure if over 100 yet, but under 120, and no herpes. Only a handful of these were long-term (i.e. trusted more and more to use no condom), thus one/two and done limits the herp, I guess, but they seriously could have almost all not had herpes idk.

There's really nothing disgusting about all this guys. Sex isn't really all as "dirty" as it's made out to be by society. It's usually a very clean act on the whole. I mean a nurse touches way more nasty things while in the ER at work. Nurses know what's safe an not safe.
 

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10. Just turned 20 years old, had 3 longish term girlfriends and never actually 'tried' to up my numbers. Pretty happy with it.
 

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Interesting...about what i thought...i lost count after 30 something myself...somewhere between 80-100 by my estimates...l...if you go out a lot over the years it really adds up...plus just casual dating over internet dating sites and day approaches as well...it just all adds up after a while...especially if you travel a lot...
 

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40-50. As I mentioned in another thread, I am a little dissappointed to be on here seeking advice from people that dont pull chicks. hopefully more poeple post honest numbers on here and I will check those threads more than the others.

dont get me wrong, there is a lot of good info. on here about bettering yourself and what not. But for people to call themselves a DJ, or think they are becoming one, is quite funny after reading these past 2 weeks of posts.

I guess it all starts with confidence though, so maybe its not a bad thing... I just feel a bit fooled

go get your d*ck wet kids
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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