"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many women that you've dated have been neurotic?

What percentage of women you've dated have been neurotic

  • 0-20%

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • 20-40%

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • 40-60%

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • 60-80%

    Votes: 4 30.8%
  • 80-100%

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • Total voters
    13

Kotaix

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Definition of neurotic:

A tendency toward anxiety, depression, self-doubt, and other negative feelings.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gamisch

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100+. No joke. Took me at least 50 to kinda accept that Cinderella/yasmine/Ariel are NOT as friendly as in the Disney movies..

Still looking for that one..unqiue total, package Haha
 

MatureDJ

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I'm at the point now that so long as a gal is less neurotic than 2 particular amoureuses in my history, it'll be good enough.
 

anonymous12345

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Latest Tinder date sure was fun: roaming eyes, anxiety, biting her nails, in therapy, otherwise your stereotypical 40-ier, "I don't like body contact" upon kino, and after a while "Can we be done now?".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LTG71

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Neurotic basically describes a woman on her period. We’ll all get the pleasure of meeting this psychopath every 28 days.
 

Robert28

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Latest Tinder date sure was fun: roaming eyes, anxiety, biting her nails, in therapy, otherwise your stereotypical 40-ier, "I don't like body contact" upon kino, and after a while "Can we be done now?".
Lol! “I don’t like to be touched”……text later after the date “dude you need to make a move! You’re too reserved for me. I need someone to take control!”
 

Murk

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None I don’t think, I generally attract happy go lucky positive people and steer clear of neuroticism.
 
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