"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many women in the West (of any ethnicity) do you think can cook a proper meal and clean?

How many young women in the West do you think can cook a proper, hearty, seasoned meal

  • 75 - 99%

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • 50 - 75%

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • 25 - 50%

    Votes: 4 22.2%
  • 10 - 25%

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • 5 - 10%

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • 2 - 5%

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • 1 - 2%

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • Less than 1%

    Votes: 1 5.6%

  • Total voters
    18

Zimbabwe

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Even though I can cook a full, hearty, properly seasoned meal for an entire family (I did just that today), I don't want to have to end up with women that are incapable of performing basic adult tasks like cooking.

The same thing goes with cleaning - today I cleaned my entire house from top to bottom, my back hurts and my hands are dry, but I don't want my future wife/girlfriend to slave me either - she has to also share half of the work.

How many young women in the West (of all ethnicities) do you think can cook a proper meal and clean?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Velasco

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Dude who cares. My girl is on track to be a millionaire. For all I care for, we could order delivery meals from top restaurants every week. Have no interest in finding out whether she can cook or not.

Realize that what determines whether your girl will make a suitable mother to your kids. Depends on her upbringing and timing on your part (getting her before she gets corrupted by her peers. Which means 18-21. If you wait too long, this may be difficult). Rather than superficial redpill benchmarks such as whether she can cook and clean or not.
 

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How many young women in the West (of all ethnicities) do you think can cook a proper meal and clean?
Cook for yourself. Clean for yourself. There was one time many years ago where I hoped to getting cooking, cleaning, and laundry out of an LTR with a woman. Then I realized things. I'll start below.

D is not going to suck itself. There's no substitute for the awesome feeling of vagina.

Sex and companionship are all you really need.

Divorce is rampant. Even non-marital breakups hurt. But you'd rather take the non-marital breakup.

I agree with Aaron Clarey's idea to enjoy the decline and pillage what you can. You're unlikely to meet anyone worth more than an extended non-marital relationship primarily about sex and companionship.
 

Who Dares Win

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Very few can and even less are willing to...unwilling to do it for you or to learn to do it.

In this contemporary moment the quality and the output of the average women is at an all time low.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude who cares. My girl is on track to be a millionaire. For all I care for, we could order delivery meals from top restaurants every week. Have no interest in finding out whether she can cook or not.

Realize that what determines whether your girl will make a suitable mother to your kids. Depends on her upbringing and timing on your part (getting her before she gets corrupted by her peers. Which means 18-21. If you wait too long, this may be difficult). Rather than superficial redpill benchmarks such as whether she can cook and clean or not.
By that logic why even get a wife? Just sleep with an escort everyday!

If an adult woman can't even do basic tasks like cooking and cleaning, what does that say about her?
 

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By that logic why even get a wife? Just sleep with an escort everyday!
The main reason a lot of men don't do that is a lack of funds. Also, a lot of men do crave some sort of emotional connection, which would be difficult to achieve going that path.

If an adult woman can't even do basic tasks like cooking and cleaning, what does that say about her?
That her ceiling in an interaction is an extended, non-marital relationship. Don't move in with her, don't put a ring on it, and don't have kids with her.
 

Bigpapa

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Dude who cares. My girl is on track to be a millionaire. For all I care for, we could order delivery meals from top restaurants every week. Have no interest in finding out whether she can cook or not.

Realize that what determines whether your girl will make a suitable mother to your kids. Depends on her upbringing and timing on your part (getting her before she gets corrupted by her peers. Which means 18-21. If you wait too long, this may be difficult). Rather than superficial redpill benchmarks such as whether she can cook and clean or not.
why would someone cares if she can cook or not

why would you like her to smell like French fries in the first place

sure once in a while her cooking would be something nice , but more often than that it means that you have some mental problems or that you are borderline poor
 

Gamisch

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Very few can and even less are willing to...unwilling to do it for you or to learn to do it.

In this contemporary moment the quality and the output of the average women is at an all time low.
Yes. Everybody can put potatoes in a pan, it's about willingness. Women have a different agenda nowadays.
The main reason a lot of men don't do that is a lack of funds. Also, a lot of men do crave some sort of emotional connection, which would be difficult to achieve going that path.



That her ceiling in an interaction is an extended, non-marital relationship. Don't move in with her, don't put a ring on it, and don't have kids with her.
Exactly. A modern man has to be 100 % independent. Otherwise a man is just looking for a second mommy . She can be a nice piece of art in your house untill she proves she is worth more.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HaleyBaron

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Scarce is the women who can cook a healthy meal. The women I see cook use too many bad carbs. Whether it's a lot of cheese, lot of fat, lot of sugar. Even the white girls cooking has bacon and other such things.
 

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Even though I can cook a full, hearty, properly seasoned meal for an entire family (I did just that today), I don't want to have to end up with women that are incapable of performing basic adult tasks like cooking.

The same thing goes with cleaning - today I cleaned my entire house from top to bottom, my back hurts and my hands are dry, but I don't want my future wife/girlfriend to slave me either - she has to also share half of the work.

How many young women in the West (of all ethnicities) do you think can cook a proper meal and clean?
I'm Brazilian so sorry for some mistakes in writing but I think you'll understand. Guy, this situation is complicated, I've been married for 4 years and I suffer from this issue of cooking and cleaning, not that she doesn't, but when she does it seems like she wants to receive a medal. Very different from the beginning of our marriage that she took pleasure in doing these things
 
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