"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many times should you call b/f giving it up

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Just started at college in Milwaukee and I LOVE it...OK, the city's a little run down and ghetto, but I've gotten my fair share of numbers so far (that, and I had a pretty cute neighbor over for about 45 minutes yesterday)

Just want to get one rule straight with calling (as I've got about 4 to work through right now). You call on the correct day after you get the #, then follow the same formula if you get voicemail, but should you give up and leave a message after attempt 2 or 3?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You mean being Italian is not helping you on this one? LoL.

There are no rules. You call a day or two after getting her number, leave a message, wait for her call. If she doesn't call back, there might not be high enough interest in her part. You can call her one more time, and leave a message. She knows you like her, and there should be no shame in that, so ALWAYS leave a message.

You need to be too busy with other babes to even worry about the ones that don't call back.
 
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Actually its a pretty simple rule.

Sit down with an 8 ball, and for each number give it a shake. Do what is says.
 
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I have to agree with Gangster of Love here in that there are no rules. Do what you want. If she is into you, she will not care when you call and she will make herself available for you. The only thing I would advise trying to avoid, especially early on, is showing too much interest too fast. You want her interest level higher than yours. After all, you are doing her a favor taking time out of your busy life to spend time with her.
 
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scrouds said:
Actually its a pretty simple rule.

Sit down with an 8 ball, and for each number give it a shake. Do what is says.
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I've heard those can help sometimes. Where would I get one?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've heard those can help sometimes. Where would I get one?
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Are you a Prince fan? Im seeing more and more posters on here with names coming from Prince songs.

Anyways, if she doesnt call back, you can leave her some totally obnoxious funny voicemail, and see if she bites. If not, sit on her number, and maybe a month from now, send out a mass text to all your flaked numbers about some party you're going to, and see who shows up. I still stand by this article here:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/60168
 
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Never contact more than twice. The rule of 2.
 
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I call once, if I get put on voicemail, I leave a message, if she replies, great, if she doesn't that's hard luck, but there's plenty more women out there.
 
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^^cosign. one time with a message is all you need. A woman carry that phone around like a priest with a bible. She know you calling
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic said:
Are you a Prince fan? Im seeing more and more posters on here with names coming from Prince songs.[/URL]
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Yep (I just moved here from Minneapolis, anyway). Prince is a badass.
 
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starfishandcoffee said:
Just want to get one rule straight with calling (as I've got about 4 to work through right now). You call on the correct day after you get the #, then follow the same formula if you get voicemail, but should you give up and leave a message after attempt 2 or 3?
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Was that like a trick question? The answer is once. I don't even know anyone anymore that has a land line. Every one has a cell phone. The thing about cell phone is that you can carry them anywhere. If the person you call doesn't answer it means they are in a situation that doesn't allow it at the time, they are on another line and ignoring the call waiting, or they are screening their calls.

You call one time, whenever the hell you want (there is no correct day), and if they don't answer you leave a message and tell them to call you back. They don't return your message, it's their loss.:up:
 
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Yep (I just moved here from Minneapolis, anyway). Prince is a badass.
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Shoulda stayed in MPLS brah. milwaukee? wtf..
 
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