Yeah sure, in Hollywood and in other perhaps good number of few exceptions to the rule, one could conclude and easily say that couples made up of really handsome men (based on women's standards) and beautiful women (based on men's standards) do last for quite a reasonably long time with successful marriages, etc. However, in our regular, everyday society, I'm starting to conclude that couples made up of so-called hot men and hot women don't seem to last that long.
One thing I just can't stand at all are proud women and very rarely have I ever come across a beautiful/hot woman who isn't proud and arrogant and who thinks all men should worship the ground she walks on and throw themselves on their knees and kiss her feet because of her looks. This statement one of my male cousins made to me a little while ago continues to resonate within me: "Handsome guys often end up either getting married to women who aren't as beautiful as most people would expect or they divorce with their attractive mate and end up with a second choice who isn't as much at all way up there in terms of looks."
I wonder if part of the reason for this could be because a number of men who are considered attractive by several woman are used to getting attention and being hit on and having a wide range of options, while women who fall into the same category equaly do have the same experiences and are therefore in the same position. Therefore, when the two hook up, the beautiful proud woman may be expeting her attractive male counterpart to let her get away with her whims and attitudes and the pedestal treatment she's used to getting from most men. Perhaps unfortunately she instead finds a man who has his own sense of reasonable dignity and pride and who is less inclined to tolerate such behavior. In the end this could then cause conflict that eventually leads to separation.
One thing I just can't stand at all are proud women and very rarely have I ever come across a beautiful/hot woman who isn't proud and arrogant and who thinks all men should worship the ground she walks on and throw themselves on their knees and kiss her feet because of her looks. This statement one of my male cousins made to me a little while ago continues to resonate within me: "Handsome guys often end up either getting married to women who aren't as beautiful as most people would expect or they divorce with their attractive mate and end up with a second choice who isn't as much at all way up there in terms of looks."
I wonder if part of the reason for this could be because a number of men who are considered attractive by several woman are used to getting attention and being hit on and having a wide range of options, while women who fall into the same category equaly do have the same experiences and are therefore in the same position. Therefore, when the two hook up, the beautiful proud woman may be expeting her attractive male counterpart to let her get away with her whims and attitudes and the pedestal treatment she's used to getting from most men. Perhaps unfortunately she instead finds a man who has his own sense of reasonable dignity and pride and who is less inclined to tolerate such behavior. In the end this could then cause conflict that eventually leads to separation.
