"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how many plates are u spnning right now?

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Whats happening to me now is they're all getting annoyed that i'm not giving them much attention! ..
Yeah, that's the biggest problem next to them wanting to escalate too quickly to establish herself as the dominant b1tch of the pack. The trick is to plan outings ahead of time and keep a calendar of some sort. As new ones come onto the roster I even keep track of where we met and what we talked about so that I don't confuse one with another during an outing with another one. You could screw up in ways other than calling one the wrong name.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
As new ones come onto the roster I even keep track of where we met and what we talked about so that I don't confuse one with another during an outing with another one. You could screw up in ways other than calling one the wrong name.
Ok, I want to start having problems like these.
 

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Ok, I want to start having problems like these.
You'd think it would be nice but you could easily be seen as a player if this starts happening and could easily screw up your own game just from getting too greedy. Best bet is just to have a few plates in the air and a couple of saucers over on the table.
 

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zilch. I got rid of all my old female friends over the past month and am trying to start anew.

wow for all the advice you dish out (and you do dish out alot of advice), it now seems like its all BS and you are a fake internet geek full of knowledge and don't even have any girls!!!

why dont u ****ing apply your own advice to your own life?

ZERO?? WOW
 

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I'm just kidding. What is everyday to you seems like to mars to me right now.

I'm not really sure what I want. No, I don't want to be a player. Not because I don't like chicks but I have other things in my life and to have a bunch of girls at once seems like a lot to juggle and I don't want to be distracted from what matters in life.

Honestly, I just want to hook up with a girl who treats me well. At some point I'll have to incorporate plate theory, I guess that's how you do it. But I have to have some goals to shoot for. And no, it's not just to be a player. I've been thinking girls were the answer and there's a lot of stuff in my life I ignored because I didn't realize how important they were. Hell just cold approaching is going to be a challenge, then turning that into spinning plates, will probably be some work. I'm sure I can handle it.

But hell women are not my priority right now. I like talking about them but things need to go in their proper sequence.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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...But hell women are not my priority right now. I like talking about them but things need to go in their proper sequence.
:rockon:
 

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The novelty of having sex with two different women on the same night is wearing off :(
finally did this not too long ago. i can now say i've banged 2 different chicks on the same night. needless to say, it was awesome :rockon:
 

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Yeah, that's the biggest problem next to them wanting to escalate too quickly to establish herself as the dominant b1tch of the pack. The trick is to plan outings ahead of time and keep a calendar of some sort. As new ones come onto the roster I even keep track of where we met and what we talked about so that I don't confuse one with another during an outing with another one. You could screw up in ways other than calling one the wrong name.

This was my biggest problem. I would always confuse what I said to each one. She would either say,"what are you talking about," in which I replied, "didn't I tell you that?" Oops.

Or I repeated the same story, she'd say, "yeah, you already told me that." Oops. Blurting out a different name can easily happen to. I would usually repeat her name in my head before I said something. Thank God that hasnt happened yet.
 

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I feel guilty sometimes about spinning plates but last night most of my guilt left the building! I asked one of the girls was she online earlier... she said she wasn't because her best friend had to take back his pc... I asked was he gay and she said "No, he's in love with me but i'm not into him at all. just handy getting a loan of a pc"!. She went on to say they met online and he's given her his pc for her birthday because hes getting a new one!

So he is buying her gifts and in love with her but she likes me after admitting she has "feelings" for me. I used to be the best friend who bought presents so its a new experiance for me to be the person thats attracting the women but being hard to get.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah, that's the biggest problem next to them wanting to escalate too quickly to establish herself as the dominant b1tch of the pack. The trick is to plan outings ahead of time and keep a calendar of some sort. As new ones come onto the roster I even keep track of where we met and what we talked about so that I don't confuse one with another during an outing with another one. You could screw up in ways other than calling one the wrong name.
I have to double check texts messages and have sent some wrong ones but got away with it!!:woo:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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