"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How many ONS or, chicks you shagged first(or second say) in the last year?

Borknagar

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Just curious where I stand compared to everyone else. People don't post too many field reports on here so thought I'd ask. Most posts related to a chick in particular are onitis.

So Whats the last year or say since the beginning of 2010 is your hit count? How about 2011?

Since 2010 mine is: 19
so far in 2011 I'm at 10 chicks.

Whats your lay count? :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scars

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Total lays: 31
2010: 8 (I think.)
2011: 2 (Mind you, I dated a girl for a year and some change, so I was out of the game for a long time. I've only been single since April. So part of 2010 I couldn't really fvck around either.)

19?, that's incredible. That was about me in 08 and 09. I always try and surpass my number every year, but sometimes you get caught up in having a girlfriend and deal with bullsh!t. Point being, don't get tied down. Being single is way too much fun.

-Scars
 

European-DJ

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Interesting post, but it would be nice if people posted their age too.

For instance, Bedding 10 girls within a year in the age of 21 and 45 isn't the same.
Would be awesome if i could compare with someone my own age.

Anyway;

5 in 2011, NOT SATISFIED!

(Just turned 19)
 

Borknagar

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5 is good for your age,. im32, and almost doubled my total in a year. But in Europe you don't have the whole 21+ bull**** we have in the states for bars and clubs right? Cause I wanna shag some 18 year olds.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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