"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How many of you....?

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nan3109

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How many of you have had your g/f or wife or 'girl' find out about this site and/or your postings on the message boards?

I'm one of them....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Not a chance

i visit through a google search at all times. That way it doesn't pop up in my quick find bar.

If i do type in www.sosuave.com, i'll often delete my cookies and such, before anyone looks around.

I live alone so it's easier, but you still have the occasional snooper that will just start proding around your personal PC.

I find that sh!t really disrespectful.

Don't leave footprints, when you visit a site like this. It really could ruin you. The outsiders don't understand, and they aren't ready to.

The Bad Ass Canadian
 
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nan, what did she say??

thats a shocker
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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