There is a reason why R&B is dead..
Its actually the opposite; if a woman likes you ,you can talk your way outta pvssy REAL fast. Not only that's, by talking too much you increase the chance to lose frame.
You shouldn't act like Terminator around women neither, but being reserved will do wonders. Talking too much seems like trying to hard to impress her with stories, jokes ect. You'll either end up giggling or gossiping like a girl, or complaining like grumpy old man.
It is always good to be able to hold your own in conversations. But part of being a good communicator is also being able to be silent when needed, or talk via body language /kino instead of words.
I think this believe comes from the insecure man, who think she was out of his league and he then seduced her with words. While in reality she liked him from the start. This is personal experience by the way.