"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How many of you in here would be interested in writing for a blog?

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So I will be traveling in a few days and won't be around for maybe a week to update the blog I write for often. As a result, I would like for some of you to contribute your information and experience to it. Now I am wondering how many of you in here would be interested in that.

You will be credited for the post you make and everything. If you are interested, reply to this thread.

The blog I write for has

about 40 or so followers on wordpress

over 35,000 views

and has been cited and quoted on forums all across the web

if you are interested, let me know


http://reesarch.wordpress.com/
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't you think you should put a link to your blog so that people can see whom/what they would be representing?
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Don't you think you should put a link to your blog so that people can see whom/what they would be representing?
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