How many of you here are over 21 and still a virgin?

[Warrior74]

Someone told me this site was full of virgins. Is that true?

Get your sh!t handled. ASAP!

Find a neighborhood freak, go to the mall, go to the club. Don't post a lick of advice to anyone else until you loose your V Card. Post up how you did it to help your fellow virgins out.

 

[slaog]

Someone told me this site was full of virgins. Is that true?

It makes sense... if they were all DJ's they wouldn't be here! lol

I do think though that there are 2 kinds of men basically. Those who get laid all the time and those who bearly ever get laid. Not much in between depending on circumstances.

 

[Maxtro]

There are a large number of virgins on this site, about 30% of the members are virgins. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134042

As for the actual content of your post, it's not even close to helpful. "Find a neighborhood freak, go to the mall, go to the club." That's the same thing as telling somebody who was broke to go find some money. Not exactly the most useful advice.

I lost my virginity back at 22 through some means that I'm not quite proud of. And yes I did go to malls and go to clubs. I couldn't find a neighborhood freak, I think she was hiding from me.

 

[Warrior74]

I lost mine at 19. It was a girl around the way that everyone knew was a freak. I was tired of being a virgin and just handled my business.

As for the people talking about content. this post isn't about content. You got the DJ bible and everything else for content. This post is about motivation!

Nobody can handle this for you but you.

As for people sitting around talking about sosuave, yah on other forums its known as the virgin forum. I think they over look the good advice thats on here and focus only on the main board or the high school board. the MM and other parts are really informative.

 

[joe bloggs]

I'm 27 and I'm still on the big 0. To be honest if I wasn't then I'd wouldn't be posting on this site.

 

[Social_disturbance]

No no no. If your a virgin, don't sweat it. I was 20 I think when I lost mine, but I had a recent scare where I thought I had HPV, but I didn't (it was a fungal infection). I am lucky to be completely clean, and if you happen to get an STD, you won't really think of sex and women as being such a great thing anymore. Just face it, women are much more likely to have a lot more sexual partners than men, so it is highly likely that you'll come in contact with one with an STD sooner than later.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Yup, Maxtro and witufinancial are right, losing your virginity means ziltch because it doesn't make you become an instant DJ. Look at them, they are not virgins, and they are just like me if not worst.

 

[Telos]

I'm on numero 6.

 

[Rebound Material]

Im at zer0 :rockon:

 

[ItsOnNow]

Not a virgin, but haven't had sex,gf, bj in a long time. I got head problems, depression, anxiety, not taking the lead on things. God, am I lonely.

 

[Fleshy99]

I'm not a virgin anymore, but I will say that I havent had any good sex yet.
I've had other things done to me that have been possibly equally as great, give me a couple of weeks and I'll get back to you. I stopped dating for a while, I just met a great girl... sooner or later it will happen.
I think the trick is to find a girl with just as much of a sex drive as you, and this is currently the case for me.

 

[Fleshy99]

Not a virgin, but haven't had sex,gf, bj in a long time. I got head problems, depression, anxiety, not taking the lead on things. God, am I lonely.

I was on that boat for a long time... keep on keepin on man! You'll get what you deserve sooner or later...

 

[Rex Man]

Not a virgin, but haven't had sex,gf, bj in a long time. I got head problems, depression, anxiety, not taking the lead on things. God, am I lonely

Alright, now THAT is truly funny. I'm in the boat that virgins shouldn't really give advice as well. Why do you think that sports coaches have all played the game before? Because experience counts.

 

[slaog]

Alright, now THAT is truly funny. I'm in the boat that virgins shouldn't really give advice as well. Why do you think that sports coaches have all played the game before? Because experience counts.

But the best players don't make the best coaches. Usually because it comes natural but the players who have to work hard on improving themselves usually make the best coaches because they consciously observed the game in more detail.

 

[orly]

26, still a virgin.

Hitting 27 in less than a month. I fully expect to hit that threshold with my V card intact.

I'm not really very concerned over the fact that I'm a virgin. What I am concerned, is the fact that I've had close to zero contact with the opposite sex.

Never had a girlfriend. Never dated. Never kissed. Never held hands. Have very few platonic female friends, and none of them close.

 

[nightcrawler]

Losing my virginity didn't change a thing. I'm still stuck in the same hole I've been trying to dig myself out of for a long time, in fact I think that these days I've gone deeper that hole, and have become bitter and envious.

With that said, I believe the only way to cure myself will be by believing in myself and to learn to love the person I am, aka confidence. I am working on it, and believe me it is far more challenging than getting a lay. And what sucks is that unless the girl is solely into you simply by your looks, you won't get laid without confidence.

The only positive outcome I see from losing my virginity was getting experience. Seek out the neighborhood freak. Or you might get lucky have the freak come to you

No matter how confident you may feel in your abilities to please a woman (and I know I can), you won't accomplish anything without believing yourself and coming to terms with your persona. Trust me.

 

[suavesuave]

im over 21 but im not a virgin and i dont get laid often period.

 

[suavesuave]

Im at zer0 :rockon:

hehehehe. i like the picture.

 

[Warrior74]

26, still a virgin.

Hitting 27 in less than a month. I fully expect to hit that threshold with my V card intact.

I'm not really very concerned over the fact that I'm a virgin. What I am concerned, is the fact that I've had close to zero contact with the opposite sex.

Never had a girlfriend. Never dated. Never kissed. Never held hands. Have very few platonic female friends, and none of them close.

You are concerned. which is why you are on this site and posted in this thread. Step one. Stop lying to yourself.

You need to be more social man. Hang out with friends. Speak to women everywhere. Don't even try for numbers or pickups. Just general conversations. Old women, young women...fat, ugly...speak! open your mouth. Talk about the weather! Ask if she has grandchildren (older women only please). Talk about anything.

I started a conversation with an older women while waiting on a resturant. She told me how her husband fought in WWII and how she waited for him faithfully and how they are still in love....what does that have to do with being a DJ, not much. but it was an interesting conversation.

You have to put yourself out there over and over until it gets better! Get some platonic female friends and tell them to help you! have them coach you, tell em you want to get this part of your life handled!

you sound like you are already defeated man! You have to be the hero of your own life and save yourself!

 

[Warrior74]

Losing my virginity didn't change a thing. I'm still stuck in the same hole I've been trying to dig myself out of for a long time, in fact I think that these days I've gone deeper that hole, and have become bitter and envious.

With that said, I believe the only way to cure myself will be by believing in myself and to learn to love the person I am, aka confidence. I am working on it, and believe me it is far more challenging than getting a lay. And what sucks is that unless the girl is solely into you simply by your looks, you won't get laid without confidence.

The only positive outcome I see from losing my virginity was getting experience. Seek out the neighborhood freak. Or you might get lucky have the freak come to you

No matter how confident you may feel in your abilities to please a woman (and I know I can), you won't accomplish anything without believing yourself and coming to terms with your persona. Trust me.

read what you wrote. It did change something didn't it? You DID something about it. Which is more than you can say for the rest of these guys here. You sound like you are on the right path.