how many of you have used hookers? would you recommend it?

[betheman]

never done it myself but thinking about it, could quite fancy something a lot younger, knows what to do and no bloody baggage.

experiences?

 

[Zunder]

No strings, no attachment, cheaper than a decent restuarant, and you get to pick whom you want to bang.

All the better if she looks like George Clooney's hooker in "The American".

 

[suspected_file_swap]

Between LTR's I used them.............they show up at my house, we go crazy for one hour then they leave. It was perfect, excatly what I was looking for at a given perioid of time in my life.

 

[Tiguere]

I did a hooker for the first time 1 week ago to stop a 6 month sexless streak. Well worth the money.

 

[Maxtro]

I recommend doing a little research online about possible ladies before you contact somebody.

Avoid the streetwalkers.

I'm considering getting one for my birthday this year. I'm turning 30 and it's a couple of years since I had any.

 

[runner83]

and it's a couple of years since I had any.

any of what?

S!x with a real woman who is attracted to you, or someone who is only doing it for money?

Physically there is nothing wrong with it (as along as your wiener doesn't fall off) but it will do tremendous harm to your mental well being.

Instead of being a man, going out and getting what you want, you cave in like a coward and buy it.

If you are still young, then DON'T DO IT!

If you are older though (i.e. over 45), and have been there, done that, I don't see a problem with it.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Pvssy's pvssy.

It comes in a box. The packaging may be a little different but once you've had enough, it's not new.

If using a Professional is your thing, fvck it. Do it. It's a business arrangement. There's no pretense of fvcking marriage or " 'til death do us part".

You pay for it, she does what she does best, you nut. Leave.

 

[spider_007]

wouldn't recomend it.

for me it turned into an addiction that drove me 40k in debth....
i've spent more then 100k in my life time on being a trick....

 

[Strelok]

Did once mostly cause I just wanted to have a good time without working that much,actually is not that bad as the social programming push you to think.

You just see a girl you like,go to her and say "Hi what about 50$ for a blow job"?
Dont lie if you never tought about doing it with some girl you know,no bullsh1t not talking no pretending to be interested,just here the money and get naked.

The bad side is that there are no such things as playing and courting,or feelings if you are the type but the physical part run smooth.
Hookers are nothing new either,they were common in most europe before the 70s,when someone decided that legal prostitution was bad for women...

 

[Maxtro]

any of what?

S!x with a real woman who is attracted to you, or someone who is only doing it for money?

Sex with somebody doing it for money. I haven't been with a real woman yet. I'm still a virgin*

Physically there is nothing wrong with it (as along as your wiener doesn't fall off) but it will do tremendous harm to your mental well being.

Instead of being a man, going out and getting what you want, you cave in like a coward and buy it.

I only pay for it once every couple of years. Of course in between escorts I try to sleep with real girls but there's a variety of reasons why it doesn't happen.

I don't think paying for sex does any more mental harm than going without sex for years. Both actually convey the same message to me.

wouldn't recomend it.

for me it turned into an addiction that drove me 40k in debth....
i've spent more then 100k in my life time on being a trick....

Woah, that's extreme. How did it get that bad?

I've spent about $1,000 and that was over an eight year period. I've spent more money on computers.

 

[spider_007]

Woah, that's extreme. How did it get that bad?

-It was easy - easier then dealing with the real issues...
-Looking for something real in the wrong place....wouldn't be the first
-Self hate...

When i would walk into a strip joint and everybody knew me by my first name.....all the girls jumped out of joy to see me.....how good did i feel
Drinks ware flowing, and so ware dances...sometimes two - three girls at a time...giggling...almost having an big orgy in the back... it was fun to say the least....but when 2am rolled around and the girls disappeared one by one...I’d start to feel that regret....and self hate.

in last couple of years, hookers have become more as something to take my anger out on, or something that i would use to feel sh!tty and discusting about my self.

It's a bottomless pit that lasted almost 9 years.
i wouldn't wish it on anybody

in a shallow sence, i supose it's alright. might be cheeper then a date - short term.... but if you have some deep issues and you get into the lifestile it'll take you down into the dirt.....i can't even tell you what kind of crack scum i'v met and what kind of discusting places i've been in. (think blood on the walls, needls on the ground...)

 

[backbreaker]

never straight paid for sex... well yes I have I take that back but that wasn't serious.. long story. but when I was using drugs, there were certain women who when they came over, they knew what the deal was.

As far as paying for hookers, not only do I not have a problem with it, men need to do it more often. men get shamed into thinking paying for sex is ba and horrible, only to let "regular" women take advantage of them by controlling the sex.

step back and think about it.. men, are whipped over something, that you can ****ing go out and buy lol. how stupid is that? Im' not saying it should be your preferred method, but there should never be a situation where a regular man is not getting ANY for over 3-5 months. call someone up and get it on dammit. no muss, no fuss.

I have stated this before, I am is so much a business mode right now working on my new business, going out and having a normal 4-5 night out a week night now is just not an option for me. If I were single I just wouldn't be going out. Not now at least. In my early 20's, I went 3 years without any because of my business.. going back, i would have no qualms about calling someone up one night a week for a few hours, having a few drinks, talk to someone other than myself lol, then **** her brains out and let her go. It would be WELL worth the money for my sanity.

 

[KarmaSutra]

It always amazes me how boys immediately jump in with postulated bravado, with sh!t like this, " I'd never pay a woman for sex! That's far beneath my stature and an afront to my masculinity!"

Fvck you.

While you're BUYING flowers, BUYING her a fvcking Hershey's rabbit, BUYING movie tickets, BUYING her dinner, you're still BUYING her attention and, hopefully, her affection.

The stark difference is with a professional wh0re, you're getting what you pay for.

With an amateur wh0re, you're only hoping you'll get a piece.

 

[squirrels]

Got solicited by some smoking hookers in Vegas...if I had been sure they were clean and not cops, the deal would have been done.

 

[squirrels]

Got solicited by some smoking hookers in Vegas...if I had been sure they were clean and not cops, the deal would have been done.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I'm not against prostitutes, but I think I'd rather give an ugly girl the night of her life than fvck a beautiful and bored call girl.

I would guess that it is the skill of feigning affection, more so than beauty or sex, that determines the value of a prostitute. It's the same with mistresses. A beautiful young woman who can con a rich old man into thinking he's attractive will never have to get a real job.

 

[Jitterbug]

Where I live, prostitution is legal, so there's very little dodgyness around. I haven't used it, but when I think back to some of my crappy ONS and flings, I'd rather pay a pro who is good at what she's doing. Might use it one day just to see what it's like. Some of my friends who have used the service said it's pretty good. Certainly not comparable to a babe who's very into you, but better than the rest.

 

[mrRuckus]

any of what?

S!x with a real woman who is attracted to you, or someone who is only doing it for money?

Physically there is nothing wrong with it (as along as your wiener doesn't fall off) but it will do tremendous harm to your mental well being.

Being men schooled in game, we largely know that attraction is manufactured. I don't do some of the stuff I do because it's "me." I do it because I know it makes panties come off.

So don't kid yourself that women are attracted to you for you so much. They're attracted to the image you create and the life your surround yourself with.

I have no idea what a "real woman" is, so it's hard to comment on that part. I question your motives and mindset for using such a phrase.

 

[Jitterbug]

Sex is just sex, runner83. It doesn't have to be something magical that you need the woman to be really into you. Sometimes you just want to fvck a hot one who's good at it. No harm done to mental well-being. And sex workers are real women too. Last time I checked, they haven't deployed sexbots in brothels or escort services yet.

I understand that sex with a hot chick who really loves you is the best kind, so is having a good meal cooked for you by a woman who really cares about you. But sometimes it's cool to pay a professional chef at a good restaurant to cook you a good dinner. There's no love in that dish, but it'd still taste damn awesome.

Sex is a physical need, just like eating.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

I'm relieved. I thought there would be a lot more posturing in here and sh*t like "A real man should be spinning plates, a real man does not need this."

I had reservations but about a year ago, in a night of drunken debauchery, it was kind of thrust upon me . . basically I was tricked and already had two girls in my hotel room before they let me know they were 'professionals.' I had won some money earlier in the night, and they were very convincing. Fun times.

Thats not to say I'd do it all the time or I'm just 100% cool with it at anytime, but if the occasion calls for it . . fvck it.

I think if all men decided today that buying sex is acceptable and normal, girls would freak the fvck out. Talk about "disarming."