"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

How many of you have sought professional help (psychologist/psychiatrist)

Sought help?

  • Psychologist (helped)

    Votes: 4 36.4%
  • Psychiatrist (helped)

    Votes: 2 18.2%
  • Psychologist (didn't help)

    Votes: 3 27.3%
  • Psychiatrist (didn't help)

    Votes: 4 36.4%

  • Total voters
    11

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
For those wondering what the events are that pushed me into this, I've bumped another thread I made a while back with an update "don't know what is going on with this girl (and myself)".
In dj world the question is "am i fvcking her?" If your not why is she on your radar?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top