How many of you have gotten a women when you ACTUALLY really wanted to?

[Chromeo]

ok I have been drinking a little bit but none the less.

I know I have, when I've gotten fed up with other women or just fed up not having a chick or getting laid... Ive dont it im sure a lot of you guys have. Think about it.

The real problem is I think most of the time when were *****ing about like a lot of guys came here to do or are here to do its because their not happy with their lives as a whole.

 

[everywomanshero]

Something amazing happens when you get too worked up about women. It gets harder to accomplish yours goals because you're fixated, bitter, depressed, and frantically trying to cling to people even if those people have undesirable traits. You stop taking care of yourself and push aside other hobbies to devote more time to obsessively trying to "perfect your game".

In reality, the exact opposite is what you need to be doing. Taking care of yourself, managing stress, being social and relaxed, selecting people you are actually interested in and mesh well with.

You need good social support, hobbies, healthy behaviors, some kind of consistency, and so on for good, long-term health. Despite all the PUW hoopla, most people are attracted to healthy, well-liked others.

 

[Diaforetikos]

I agree with everywomanshero with everything except for the game part.

It is really hard to talk to women without being competent in that area. Now that doesn't mean you should focus super hard on your game, but you need some experience so you know what your doing.

For the longest, I didn't know what being sexual looked like until I read what it was, saw it myself, and then learned to reproduce those actions. But that took time. I had to learn that stuff. But I didn't go out there and drop hobbies and things of the sort just to learn to be sexual. I spread it out to where I could learn it without being engulfed with it.

Just listen to everywomanshero, and impliment some of my advice and all you noobs should be fine.

 

[Chromeo]

I was more referring to desire.

When you actually want it, and go after it. You say fvck it, im gonna talk to her and charm her pants off. Instead of whining about how you cant get any chicks, or you have nothing going for you.

And if your happy with the rest of your life, your probably not gonna be whining about women, because if your happy it shows, and builds confidence and that attracts women

there's cycles of success and failure. Something starts going right and other things start falling into place. Something goes wrong and if your not careful your whole world could fall apart.

 

[f283000]

NEVER!

To be honest with the theme of this thread the women that i been really attracted to and had a deep animal attraction to I have never been able to get.

I'm talking about the women that I would willingly turn to an afc and marry them just to be with them everyday (even though I bowed never to marry). The women that I would buy a ring for just so I could get them. These type of women I have never gotten.

They have only been a few of these type of women in my life that I was deeply attracted to from an animal attraction type of way (probably around 6 or so). Every woman I have gotten has either been cute/beautiful but no deep attraction that would make me wanna do something stupid like marry them. None of the women I've gotten did I ever feel like living with everyday.