SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Would also like to know the responses you got from them?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How many of you have called out a girl for putting you in the friends zone?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What would be the point of that? She puts you in the friend zone because shes not interested. With a good chance of the reasoning being your fault.
Calling her out is going to change that? Is it going to make her realize her feelings for you?
No benefit to it. And I wouldn't blame the girl for flipping out on a dude that called her out for it.
Calling her out is going to change that? Is it going to make her realize her feelings for you?
No benefit to it. And I wouldn't blame the girl for flipping out on a dude that called her out for it.
dude theres no such thing as the friend zone. this is just something that people use to justify their own failure.
if you find yourself in the "friendzone" its not because you took too long to act.. you never had a chance to begin with.
if you find yourself in the "friendzone" its not because you took too long to act.. you never had a chance to begin with.