"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ryannath said:
All I've ever done is drink and I have tried pot once. I just took one hit and it was from some so so weed. It wasn't strong weed and since it was my first time, I kinda lost coordination and kinda was stumbling, but once I sat down, I felt really relaxed and just started laughing at the stupiest things that wasn't even funny. I felt kinda stupid laughing at things that wasn't even funny though. Then I layed down and bed and I kept thinking, "wow, i feel so relaxed. Weed is not as bad as ppl make it out to be."

Now, with alcohol I have noticed that it really messes me up ALOT worse than weed. Alcohol makes it to where I can't really walk at all and can barely talk and everything is slurred and plus the headache that alcohol sucks and so does the 7 trips to the bathroom the next day.
Maybe your really lightweight and need to moderate the amout of drinking... I got a friend who gets drunk off few shots. I don't really find being sh*tfaced to the point of throwing up fun or worth it... you get a hangover and it just sucks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah i find that even with me, alchol and pot have really effected my motivation. It really does hurt your potential when you do it 2 much. I wasnt a heavy drinker like every day, but i'd do it a few times a week, and that was enough to make me into an angry depressed person. Along with it i'd smoke dope as well.

I wanna get off both and return to how i used to be. I cant get that drunk anymore anyways. I'd drink and drink and drink and could only get drunk to a certain point.

i was supposed to go camping this week and i prolly would have been **** faced everday, adding to the beer belly which is not 2 big but if i keep drinking it will be.

So i actually feel better that i did not go out. I am going to try and stay sober for a few weeks. see what happens
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Wow dude so you only did cocaine? or did you do crack too? You must have done a lot if your nose started to bleed. My friend does it in highschool and he told me that one line costs 50 bucks for him. It's def a drug for rich ppl. I'm def sticking to alcohol, seen way too many kids f*ck up their life on weed and shrooms. They can't even think straight anymore and a lot of dropouts tend to smoke weed everyday.
not necessarly... good coke will make your nose bleed assuming you do more than a couple of lines... esppically if you don't do it often. it's not like it hurts or anything.

if you do too much coke over an extended period of time (i.e years) you can actually ut a hole though your nose


lol, **** up your life on weed? that's funny.. you have alot better chance of ****ing your life up on drinks than weed. a hell of alot


my gosh you need tog et out of la la land if you think a line costs 50 bucks. either you need to get out of la la land, or your friend is getting it up the ass. That's about a 1000% profit margin.

50 dollars will buy you about a gram, give or take of coke (at least good coke, and more if there is a drought). a gram will make the avg person about 8-10 lines, no less than 5-7, and one can easily stretch it out to about 13ish lines, but the effect wuldn't be as great so what's the point.

lol, 50 dollars a line.. in a way, snorting is more cost effective than drinking... at lesat if you drink lke me. I can spend 100 a night on drinks and not blink if I'm in the mood. A gram will last me a night an di don't drink when I dused to do coke.... so alot of what you here are literarly myths or frabications.. eihte rthat or his dealer really loves dealing with him
 

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per rick james....cocaine is a hellofa drug


it's one of thoose things everyone has to do once.... because you've never done anything like it nor will you ever...b ut it's nothing you should do often, nor do I want to... but you owe it to yourfself to just free up one night, stay at home, maybe with a friend, grab a gram, maybe even an 8ball and just have fun.... Cocaine isn't addictive (crack is) so you won't have to worrya bout wanting more.. I mean you might WANT more but you won't be feending for it
 

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did you know Freud was a cocaine addict? There are alot out there
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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