How many of you guys here over the age of 30 get laid a lot?

[Red Legg]

maybe I'll try online dating in 9 months after my hair transplant is done

Yes because a bald man has never gone out with a "hot" woman before...

 

[CBear]

I can't help you with that one, Dave. I don't message women online. They message me. Perhaps Guru or one of the other guys can help you with initiating.

But I will say this: Less is usually more, in my experience. The more I write in my ad, the fewer responses I get, no matter how funny, how successful... didn't matter. All it seemed to ever do for me was give them more to read too deep into and eliminate me from their list. Now I just keep it extremely brief and let them wonder. They have to reach out and actually talk to me to know more.

Thank you for being a wonderful example (among other posters) for others guys on here as to how to absolutely kill it as a man in his 40s. So many guys just let go in their 30s in so many ways because they get too complacent with their lives and it's sad to see. They don't have anymore desire to succeed. Even guys my age, which I think is ridiculous.
As a motivated 20 year old, I aspire to do this well in my 40s (not just with the dating aspect of course )

 

[bigdave17]

Yes because a bald man has never gone out with a "hot" woman before...

bald men have 0 chance for online dating

There are 50,000 guys messaging her who are 6'2, NW0 with male model perfect straight hairline, making 200K+ a year, 10/10 facial aesthetics, 8% BodyFat, etc... why would she pick a bald dude? I'm like an NW2 with slight recession in the temples and even that's not good enough.

The only exception being if you're maybe a 6'5, 280 LB super ripped, super handsome black bald man like the Rock

 

[bigdave17]

Thank you for being a wonderful example (among other posters) for others guys on here as to how to absolutely kill it as a man in his 40s. So many guys just let go in their 30s in so many ways because they get too complacent with their lives and it's sad to see. They don't have anymore desire to succeed. Even guys my age, which I think is ridiculous.
As a motivated 20 year old, I aspire to do this well in my 40s (not just with the dating aspect of course )

I agree, I hope to like him in my 40s

I'm very very driven for success in all areas of my life. Everything else makes sense. I wish dating made some sense to me. It's always been absolutely baffling

 

[Red Legg]

bald men have 0 chance for online dating

There are 50,000 guys messaging her who are 6'2, NW0 with male model perfect straight hairline, making 200K+ a year, 10/10 facial aesthetics, 8% BodyFat, etc... why would she pick a bald dude? I'm like an NW2 with slight recession in the temples and even that's not good enough.

The only exception being if you're maybe a 6'5, 280 LB super ripped, super handsome black bald man like the Rock

Not true at all..I am a 47 year old combat vet,I DON'T make 200 k a year,I drive an OLD Ford pickup truck...all it takes is confidence and you have none.

 

[bigdave17]

Not true at all..I am a 47 year old combat vet,I DON'T make 200 k a year,I drive an OLD Ford pickup truck...all it takes is confidence and you have none.

and you're getting cute 26-27 year olds on dating sites with nice bodies?

I call severe bullsh*t

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not true at all..I am a 47 year old combat vet,I DON'T make 200 k a year,I drive an OLD Ford pickup truck...all it takes is confidence and you have none.

Exactly. It would help to see if he started fvcking the babes he currently can get.

 

[Red Legg]

and you're getting cute 26-27 year olds on dating sites with nice bodies?

I call severe bullsh*t

Before I met my current lover who is a natural blonde hair blue eyed knockout (hb 8) with German features she looks like Geissel Bunchen.I Routinely landed smoking hot 19-24 year old's with no problem so many in fact I grew tired of them.My lifetime lay count is over 250 plus..and I was married for 17 years.

 

[bigdave17]

Before I met my current lover who is a natural blonde hair blue eyed knockout (hb 8) with German features she looks like Geissel Bunchen.I Routinely landed smoking hot 19-24 year old's with no problem so many in fact I grew tired of them.My lifetime lay count is over 250 plus..and I was married for 17 years.

we're talking about dating websites, not approaching them on the street

 

[bigdave17]

Exactly. It would help to see if he started fvcking the babes he currently can get.

having sex with 4/10s or 7/10s who are nearly 40s is completely worthless to me on every level


I'm so sick and tired of not getting the women I should be getting with (very attractive mid to late 20s women)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

having sex with 4/10s or 7/10s who are nearly 40s is completely worthless to me on every level


I'm so sick and tired of not getting the women I should be getting with (very attractive mid to late 20s women)

You need to get your dyck wet in the meantime

 

[bigdave17]

You need to get your dyck wet in the meantime

having sex with 4/10s or 7/10s who are nearly 40s is completely worthless to me on every level

did I say this in Spanish?

 

[spred]

Amante Silvestre probably has his sh1t together in real life and projects that aura. Thats why he is getting good stuff

 

[bigdave17]

Amante Silvestre probably has his sh1t together in real life and projects that aura. Thats why he is getting good stuff

that means nothing. I have had my life together incredibly well since I was 22. I was making crazy money, had an amazing lifestyle, great friends, etc... right out of college

still didn't get any girls

 

[_sideways_]

Because you suck the energy out of the room bro.
The Rock? Really? That steroid freak is what you think is attractive ?
How about you start thinking you are attractive?
Saved you therapy bills right there. But of course you make tons of cash

 

[AttackFormation]

Because you suck the energy out of the room bro.
The Rock? Really? That steroid freak is what you think is attractive ?
How about you start thinking you are attractive?
Saved you therapy bills right there. But of course you make tons of cash

People are so f*cking brainwashed today by the mass culture they look up to steroid-users who are "all natty bro" as role models...

 

[bigdave17]

Because you suck the energy out of the room bro.
The Rock? Really? That steroid freak is what you think is attractive ?
How about you start thinking you are attractive?
Saved you therapy bills right there. But of course you make tons of cash

I've been a fan of the Rock since 1997 - the guy is a true living legend

Suck the energy out of the room? nah if you met me in real life, you would all like me. I guarantee just about everyone in this forum would like me immensely in real life. I'm very easy to get along with

 

[bigdave17]

People are so f*cking brainwashed today by the mass culture they look up to steroid-users who are "all natty bro" as role models...

The Rock is the GOAT human being

GOAT pro wrestler
Biggest action star in the world
Can sing, act, do comedy, do action, etc...
Great charisma
10/10 physique
Heart of gold

 

[Von]

Easy to get laid.

After your **** in order (dont live with parents, own who you are, have goals)

Than go out at a bar (local campus / university you went bar is a good idea)

Get into OLD.

No matter the age.. Its the same stuff: Talk to people.

Last night after 12 hours of work, i took a walk.. I meet a girl who introduced me to her father in the same night (he came to join her)... Than went to a bar.. Chatted with 2 guys and 1 girl adding the bartender... they included me in their groupm

so i went out once and go 6 strangers to have fun with.

maybe we could have gotten the 3 girls who were almost naked lol to join us.

with time i find its eaiser to get laid, because you know and own yourself better. just go out there and meet people after work/school

 

[mrgoodstuff]

wouldn't you say the vast majority of women who are 25-30 want a man in the same age range?

I'm not saying they would not be open to dating a man who is 10 or 12 years older but they would have a strong preference for someone within 5-10 years, no?

It's alot safer to stay within 3-5 years . But a small percentage of females prefer a older male . How he acts is more attractive . You still need to get your GAME.