How many of you guys get frequent dates from day cold approaches?

[Shivastorm_88]

By this I mean in settings where you don't know anyone (coffee shop, library, school, malls, grocery store, in the street, etc.). Basically, where you don't meet the girl through a third party.

I ask because I'm not really interested in the nightlife setting or night game in general... I hardly ever go out in bars, and I never went clubbing and don't intend to go any time soon.

And since I'm getting more and more serious into the DJ Bootcamp, I want to know what I can expect from day approaches. Mind you, I am not seeking ONS, I am mostly interested in casual dates and spinning plates until I can a girl that suits my needs for an LTR.

 

[Warrior74]

Try it and see. What if every guy here tells you that it's a no go and you will fail. Will you give up and not try?

 

[NoCommitments]

I'm newly single after a long LTR bro but already I'm workin the rooms.

heres whats been goin on for me (hope this helps): these are local settings(gym, restaurant) & 2 online dates,

Asked out 4 girls. went on 3 dates. kissing but no foreplay yet..
also asked out this sexy f*ckin dominican chick that was a yes. but she's flaky cause she can't get over her abusive ex-bf which is why I was only being a friend to her & I didnt even wanna touch that. But she kept askin me "what should I do to forget him"? ..so I said point blank "YOU NEED TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE LIKE YESTERDAY"!! then I asked her out...but she keeps cancellin on guys...its been like 10months & she hasnt even kissed a guy....that body of hers is being wasted!!!
So thats my experiences so far. Its only been a few weeks & I havent been tryin that hard. So I'm sure you'll do great!!!

start walking up to chicks on the street & say crazy **** like "hey, I just stepped in your dog's poop" (even if they don't have a dog) or "if the world ended tomorrow what coffee would you order?" lol ... audition any line, stupid or not, with conviction & humor & it'll teach you what to say or not say. but more importantly it will open up some kinda communication

either way it's amazing to walk up to a girl. Talk her up .Get her to smile & laugh with you. Lighten up her day & yours. even if you dont get a date it will build your confidence level up to that

Write back with progress man

 

[rushing dude 123]

Well most my dates come from cold approaches off the street, i can't be bothered to waste my time doing night life seeing i live a very busy lifestyle. It is convenient, easy, more likely to pick up a decent girl and if you can pull it off in the day you can pull it off anywhere really.

It takes a lot of effort though to begin with and sometimes even to maintain the skill. So you will get a few flakes to start off with, but they will slowly reduce as u get better. So if you are starting out and putting 50% in it you may get 0-1 dates (more likely 0). If you push yourself and give 100% trying new things out of your comfort zone and learning from your mistakes, i would say the dates you could get a week will range from 1-7 when you start off.

You seem to have the same goal as me and if i remember correctly you are on week 2 going on to week 3. So that is where things get interesting. I am sure you will have a great time doing it and you will be suprised with the results.

Note: Be patient, it takes a bit of time, but if you keep working on improving you will get there in the end.

 

[spinaroonie]

Seems that more and more guys are quitting night game and seeing the lght these days.

 

[rushing dude 123]

hey spinaroonie i think i read that post on the whole night game is dead thing of yours, so don't get me wrong night game is kool and succesful in my opinion. However I just feel for me personally day game is better for me, because like i said i have a busy schedule and it allows me to do my thing whilst getting from A>B and during daily encounters.

Night game isn't dead, it is actually very much alive. You just got to have the experience and skill in that field to see results as u do in anything in life. If you want something right "NOW" night game is probably for you, you can go to a local club talk to some girls, be confident, fun, dance with some girls and you will probablly be leaving with someone pretty easily.

The girls are drunk so it is easier as well and they all know the deal as much as they try to dispute it. Like i said you got to to put some effort into improving it though, that will probably change the type of quality girls u bring home from a HB6 to a HB9. I have actually met a lot of hot awesome chicks through the night game, but all that takes is just having a bit of balls when u go out there.

If you don't do much approaching and just expect everything to land on your lap it probably won't happen and you will go home to mr hand, but if you have fun, crazy things will happen. There is such a difference in results from someone who does nothing to someone who is the life of the party, so your results will depend on where u stand. Do you really think all those hot girls go out to listen to music and enjoy the atmosphere....no they go out to go home with GUYS.

Day game has its advantages as well, you are more likely (but not always) to meet more respectable girls and it has a more idk romantic vibe. The girl in the library that you get talking to may not be wanting to get laid that very second, but she could be a wild girl at heart...you just got to find out. There is quite a lot of mystery in day game, sometimes you don't know what your getting yourself into and what they exactlly want either. You may think it is crazy, but i think that is a good quality as well because it makes things a bit different.

Everything is just a matter of opinion on here though, some people argue that day game does NOT WORK at all. They all work from my experience, but it just takes effort+time to get them down, however with social circles and online game it dosn't take too much and they can be a bit easier. I am a bit old fashioned though and i appreciate and enjoy the rush from a good hunt.