"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many of you guys clear the cannon before going out on a date?

T-Mack

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I'm about to meet up with this girl tonight at the bar. I'm about to go out with a loaded gun... is this recommended? lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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fertileTurtle

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OK dude. I think iT'S ALRIGHT. Just ****ing do what feels right and you will ALWAYS *** out on top.
 

Ice882

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what the fvck are you going to need a gun for.
 

Kal0051

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nah, I love blowing a big one all over her face, lol. I guess it would be good to calm your nerves (if this is a problem for you). I'm a pretty relaxed guy so never really saw the point.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Poonani Maker

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NO! don't blow your load man. I haven't in almost 2 months. It doesn't interest me anymore. Don't let a woman cause your to fall into sin. They're not worth it!
 

shydude

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Yes its 100% better to jack off before going on a date and dont drink TOO Much. Get her very wet before, do a full body massage, lick her toes, rub her (), kiss it, lick it and go on. Dont recomment pornography positions. Make sure your body feels hers all the time, that way she enjoys it. If you dont get laid shot yourself. :D Wait did you ask me wat to do in bed of only if you should unload your pipe? :D
 

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It really depends.

Blowing your load releases a chemical which makes you feel lazier, decreases sex drive and sometimes make you a little sleepy (don't worry this goes away pretty quick). The upside is that you can vibe that you are not needy, and sex isn't a big deal to you. This can also suggest pre-selection and that you get a lot of sex, even though you're really jerking it.

Not blowing leaves you're sex drive up high. Pluses are generally that you have more testosterone running through your systems, you can go caveman and go raw. You may or may not act more ballsy and go for sh*t you normally wouldn't.

Your call, maybe experiment a little with both. In the end I don't think it matters that much, if you have tight game you're going to get laid either way.

-Lust.
 

Alle_Gory

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Poonani Maker said:
NO! don't blow your load man. I haven't in almost 2 months. It doesn't interest me anymore. Don't let a woman cause your to fall into sin. They're not worth it!
You know what happened to the last Luke Skywalker?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I like to be horny as sh!t before I go out...gives me more incentive to actually talk to someone.
 
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