How many of you got a gf because of sosuave?

[LogMeIn]

I got a girl because of sosuave

I'm sticking to the only thing I've learnt on here

That is to be a man

The rest is jsut how well you present yourself


Women don't care how great looking you are

They dont' care how much muscle you have

They don't care how sexual you are

etc.


They do care about how you look

How much money you have

How intelligent you are

How many other women you have

 

[MrJack]

I got a girl because of sosuave

I'm sticking to the only thing I've learnt on here

That is to be a man

The rest is jsut how well you present yourself


Women don't care how great looking you are

They dont' care how much muscle you have

They don't care how sexual you are

etc.


They do care about how you look

How much money you have

How intelligent you are

How many other women you have

Wait so they don't care how great looking you are but they do care about how you look? Do you mean like style?

Either way I somewhat agree. I think they DO care to some extent how sexual you are because if you aren't sexual at all then they aren't going to be attracted to you.

But to your question, I haven't gotten a legit gf from sosuave but I have gotten a couple plates that have each lasted a couple months now and still going strong and I have gotten much better with women and better generally about how a man should act.

 

[youngprodigy]

Got girls before sosauve and I used to hop relationships till my last BPD ex. Sosauve changed me and overall I got hotter and even more girls, but I no longer want to be exclusive. With all that I've seen and heard of, the dating market is trash.

Women care about your sexuality a lot, the more experience you have it rubs off on your personality and how you carry yourself. It's like they can tell if you've been getting laid
Major key is social politics. My most successful lays were from social groups. Girl-friends are the most valuable relationships for meet other girls

 

[skinnyguy]

Most guys on this site do not want a gf. They want plates.

 

[Masculinity]

I got a girl because of sosuave

I'm sticking to the only thing I've learnt on here

That is to be a man

The rest is jsut how well you present yourself


Women don't care how great looking you are

They dont' care how much muscle you have

They don't care how sexual you are

etc.


They do care about how you look

How much money you have

How intelligent you are

How many other women you have

I probably would not be capable with women or have the experience I now have had it not been for the guys here who helped me when I was a rookie.

 

[ubercat]

Pretty much fruitbat s story always had girlfriends including live ins and no idea how to manage them. Now it's just second nature.

 

[TheGambino]

The main thing this site taught me.

What shyt tests are.
How to handle shyt tests - avoid, laugh, do NOT be pulled into justifying yourself or show insecurity.

I have found the one thing which most women really appreciate is EMOTIONAL STABILITY.

This is what I feel a lot of shyt tests are all about, knocking your frame, how do you react?

Do you get needy or upset like a woman? If so, what happens if she miscarries? What happens if you lose your job? Your parents? Do you lose your shyt? Do you carry on. Are you wise enough to know what they are doing? If you're not, how will you survive when other men try to wind you up and take advantage of you- if she can knock you, you're easy.

I am going through this a bit at the moment with a PMT ridden GF, who is getting emotional.

Just don't argue, don't get pulled in, just be cheerful, and if it starts to really p1ss you off, explain the issue calmly and explain the implications. I have started doing this since I joined and it;s proving much bettter than my old technique of losing my shyt then apologising.

These are the things SS has taught me, I would wager a man with really strong internal control is far higher value than a bodybuilder who's always in some emotional shythole. Obviously both is better.

I guess what I am saying is that SS hasn't neccessarily helped me attract more women, it;s made me better with dealing with them when the initial stage is done.

This is one of the best Posts I ever Read.

 

[sosousage]

Since I joined SS I had 0 women

 

[MrJack]

Since I joined SS I had 0 women

You'll get there. I mean shyt you're already a "Senior Don Juan" after a month.

I'm just lowly normal "Don Juan" lol

 

[TheGambino]

Im always charming and flattering. Seeing the best in people and complimenting them in special ways When They deserve iT. People like me because of that. People hate me because I love to bragg though. But bragging is okay for me, if your good in something, show iT. Ill only support and embrace you.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

I got my current one.

 

[sosousage]

It took me YEARS of failing, failing failing to get anywhere and I am still 10% of the man I want to be.

Just have faith. Some of my posts from 6 months ago were wailly, bytchy crap. 3 years ago after divorce, watching my ex wife literally lose her mind and having to look after her, whilst having a HB10 play me to shyt, I stood on the bridge 3 times and couldn't do it.

I'm currently very successful at work and I'm banging a woman I would have NEVER deemed it possible.

I can't say SS had nothing to do with this.

Keep going and you will get there

are your closest friends in relationships or they are one/zeroitis

 

[sosousage]

Are you asking me if my friends are single?

yes im asking if you hang out with gay crew or with cool people

(just joking about the gay part)

 

[Desdinova]

I've had many women because of this place. I've also dealt with my inner problems from my childhood, confidently got a better job, improved my confidence, my sense of humor, my happiness, and learned how to take no 5hit from anybody. I can definitely say that I'm not even close to the same person I was before coming here.

 

[ubercat]

Totally agree that there are many levels in the game. In terms of f****** around I guess I peaked in my 30s like many guys. Now I'm ok with one woman as long as she looks after my needs well and is decent company.

Now the kicker is of course procreation. Most guys want to be a dad. And most guys don't want to be an old Dad. So 35 to 40 is the natural peak for guys. Of course we can father children after that but don't assume easily science says we degrade to o.

It is a game you decide what you want out of it and you play as hard as you need to.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I'm on the relationship side of things, and I can say without a doubt that this site was what enabled me to know how to handle women and to be attractive to them in the first place. Around 8 years ago I would have considered my current woman to be totally out of my league, but in fact she considers herself out of MY league.

I think that some men spin their wheels for years or even decades because they don't know how to separate what's taught here into small, manageable steps. The entire subject seems overwhelming.

 

[Serenity]

I didn't get a girlfriend because of this place, I got a girlfriend because of myself. Although this forum did provide some bits and pieces that I found helpful along the way, I would ultimately have achieved my goal one way or another, even without this place.

There are many things stated on this forum that would have sabotaged my goal, it's just as easy to be misguided as it is to be guided on this forum. Ultimately I had to trust my own judgement anyways.

Edit: Not saying I'm ungrateful. It's just that if I hadn't learned from here I would have accumulated my knowledge and experience elsewhere. I had an unbreakable will to sort out my problems before I even knew where and what to look for, that sort of inner force just kinda finds a way.