"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how many of you believe in love and love at first sight?

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I'm in love with my computer right now. It's lasted me 5 years. I built it over the years with bits and pieces I picked out of the trash or peoples lawns. In fact, we're celebrating our 5th anniversary in a few weeks.
Haha. Good one.

I know what you mean. I still have the first computer that I ever assembled. I figure that using the Slot 1 architecture is part of its personality, so in that PC I'm not going to ever put a motherboard in there that isn't Slot 1. I remember the awesome feeling when I made it work on June 1st, 1998. In a few years it'll be hopelessly obsolete (like the 386), but I don't think I'm ever going to get rid of it.

Of course, I have other computers so it's no longer my primary system (My primary is based off of the Socket 940 Opteron architecture.).

I even still have the Win NT 4.0 disk I used with the first system I built (Hey, it was 1998. Nothing better was available.).


Ben
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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