"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many of you are socially inept?

The411

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How many of you aren't able to actually carry a conversation with people in real life let alone online or through texting?

Can you read clues of interest or disinterest in topics or peoples reactions not necessarily "IOI's" or "IOD's" in you as a person?

Can you pick up certain buzz words in peoples replies to start new conversations? IE: Talking about California and there's a lull in the topic but you mention a vacation or places they've went to start fresh.

Are you a good listener as well as talker?

Are there fears or internal issues that make your minds go blank and your discomfort shows?

Or do you ever wonder why most people avoid you and the type of energy you may put out?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You should never rely most conversations through text or email with someone. without hearing their voice tone or in some cases body language there are so many variables to misunderstand a text or reply.
 

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Women misinterpret texts all the time, they look for too much in them. If you say too little, like a simple "yes" or "no", you get a response like "Jeez, why the hell are you being so short with me." Too in depth and you look like you are trying too hard. I keep mine short and sweet, but I try to text the least amount I can. I give them a call if there is something that needs to be clarified or important said.

And I can talk for ever given the right time of day. If it is late in the day and I haven't eaten, then the person I am talking too can fuk off, cause I'm too tired, hungry, and cranky, lol.
 
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