"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How many of you are socially inept?

The411

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How many of you aren't able to actually carry a conversation with people in real life let alone online or through texting?

Can you read clues of interest or disinterest in topics or peoples reactions not necessarily "IOI's" or "IOD's" in you as a person?

Can you pick up certain buzz words in peoples replies to start new conversations? IE: Talking about California and there's a lull in the topic but you mention a vacation or places they've went to start fresh.

Are you a good listener as well as talker?

Are there fears or internal issues that make your minds go blank and your discomfort shows?

Or do you ever wonder why most people avoid you and the type of energy you may put out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You should never rely most conversations through text or email with someone. without hearing their voice tone or in some cases body language there are so many variables to misunderstand a text or reply.
 

latinnova

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Women misinterpret texts all the time, they look for too much in them. If you say too little, like a simple "yes" or "no", you get a response like "Jeez, why the hell are you being so short with me." Too in depth and you look like you are trying too hard. I keep mine short and sweet, but I try to text the least amount I can. I give them a call if there is something that needs to be clarified or important said.

And I can talk for ever given the right time of day. If it is late in the day and I haven't eaten, then the person I am talking too can fuk off, cause I'm too tired, hungry, and cranky, lol.
 
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