"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many of you are into foreign women?

jophil28

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Drum&Bass said:
...Intelligence and logic plus her femininity and charm..
Nah, it is not possible - in ONE package ? Wow, does she have an older sister?

YOu sure that she is not bionic or some high tech 'experiment' which escaped from a laboratory at the U of Moscow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've met a handful of Russian women down here and they're that type (beautiful, intelligent, feminine). Maybe indeed there was some high tech experiment in a lab somewhere in Russia and they escaped from that. They're all taken though (arrgghh!!).

Here's one for you, jophil28: http://news.ninemsn.com.au/world/634470/swimsuit-model-crowned-queen-of-chess and she seems to like men more than twice her age. ;)

Another one I can remember off the top of my head is Natalie Glebova (Russian Canadian), Miss Universe, married to that Thai tennis player with a very long name. She has a bunch of degrees in IT & science, accomplished pianist, etc.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I've met a handful of Russian women down here and they're that type (beautiful, intelligent, feminine). Maybe indeed there was some high tech experiment in a lab somewhere in Russia and they escaped from that.

Another one I can remember off the top of my head is Natalie Glebova (Russian Canadian), Miss Universe, married to that Thai tennis player with a very long name. She has a bunch of degrees in IT & science, accomplished pianist, etc.
This one seems to be smart enough to be Prime Minister:

http://img.waffleimages.com/0e9186a...379ef2a/Yulia_Tymoshenko_press_conference.jpg
http://img.waffleimages.com/979630affb8c8556d4bb27d09bd17525d2f3396f/tymofrock.jpg
http://img.waffleimages.com/f1a64352f3b1e1efa04e2dd271e24c20432c40b5/yulia-tymoshenko-017.jpg

^^Let me emphasize, that is the Prime Minister of Ukraine.
 

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Holy smokin' hotness!!!

Says a lot about the contrasting standards when we have American Don Juans thinking Sarah Palin is hot! :p
 

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Says the Canadian. They're also good for bringing me beer in the local establishments.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scaramouche said:
Big Johnsons Phillipino girls as pure sex toys they are wonderful if unimaginative lovers,but if down the line,you wish to relate to them on a higher level,there is a cultural gap a mile wide,despite having devout Christian backgrounds those I meet all seem obsessed with money and things,mistaking form for substance,they seem to be born poor in their mentality and seem oblivious to the contemplative pleasures of life....Nature,Philosophy,good books,music all seem seeds that fall on barren ground........Another real killer with them is their,love me love my family culture,everything revolves around family and even the older ones just yearn for more themselves....they identify around family and see their selfworth in the number of children they have....

All true in general. I must confess however that while the "love me love my family" thing is true *I* also believe this and as part of any LTR I will be evaluating her family very carefully. I won't be with a woman whose family is below par or hostile. She must also love *my* family.

I actually find their loyalty to parents charming truth be told.

As for being unable to appreciate the finer things I have so far found they are just like all other women, some can, most cannot. The common obsession with money is in my opinion largely due to the crushing poverty many grow up in. I have found many who are not so money centered but many are. Again women in general seem to worry more about "nesting" than men.

No matter where you look there are things to watch out for, but the core values and personality I have found in places like the Philippines are worth doing some sorting work. Truth be told, the sorting process really doesn't feel a lot like work at all unless you stumble upon a genuine nymphomaniac.
 

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I appreciate all the ladies. I've been attracted to/dated all types of girls. White chicks, hispanic chicks, black chicks, asian chicks, european chicks, middle eastern chicks. I love all the ladies. It's fun to be a connoiseur of women.
 
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