jophil28
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Nah, it is not possible - in ONE package ? Wow, does she have an older sister?Drum&Bass said:
YOu sure that she is not bionic or some high tech 'experiment' which escaped from a laboratory at the U of Moscow.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How many of you are into foreign women?
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YOu sure that she is not bionic or some high tech 'experiment' which escaped from a laboratory at the U of Moscow.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I've met a handful of Russian women down here and they're that type (beautiful, intelligent, feminine). Maybe indeed there was some high tech experiment in a lab somewhere in Russia and they escaped from that. They're all taken though (arrgghh!!).
Here's one for you, jophil28: http://news.ninemsn.com.au/world/634470/swimsuit-model-crowned-queen-of-chess and she seems to like men more than twice her age.
Another one I can remember off the top of my head is Natalie Glebova (Russian Canadian), Miss Universe, married to that Thai tennis player with a very long name. She has a bunch of degrees in IT & science, accomplished pianist, etc.
Here's one for you, jophil28: http://news.ninemsn.com.au/world/634470/swimsuit-model-crowned-queen-of-chess and she seems to like men more than twice her age.
Another one I can remember off the top of my head is Natalie Glebova (Russian Canadian), Miss Universe, married to that Thai tennis player with a very long name. She has a bunch of degrees in IT & science, accomplished pianist, etc.
This one seems to be smart enough to be Prime Minister:Jitterbug said:
http://img.waffleimages.com/0e9186a...379ef2a/Yulia_Tymoshenko_press_conference.jpg
http://img.waffleimages.com/979630affb8c8556d4bb27d09bd17525d2f3396f/tymofrock.jpg
http://img.waffleimages.com/f1a64352f3b1e1efa04e2dd271e24c20432c40b5/yulia-tymoshenko-017.jpg
^^Let me emphasize, that is the Prime Minister of Ukraine.
bigjohnson
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Says the Canadian. They're also good for bringing me beer in the local establishments.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
bigjohnson
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Scaramouche said:
All true in general. I must confess however that while the "love me love my family" thing is true *I* also believe this and as part of any LTR I will be evaluating her family very carefully. I won't be with a woman whose family is below par or hostile. She must also love *my* family.
I actually find their loyalty to parents charming truth be told.
As for being unable to appreciate the finer things I have so far found they are just like all other women, some can, most cannot. The common obsession with money is in my opinion largely due to the crushing poverty many grow up in. I have found many who are not so money centered but many are. Again women in general seem to worry more about "nesting" than men.
No matter where you look there are things to watch out for, but the core values and personality I have found in places like the Philippines are worth doing some sorting work. Truth be told, the sorting process really doesn't feel a lot like work at all unless you stumble upon a genuine nymphomaniac.
SomethingClever
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I appreciate all the ladies. I've been attracted to/dated all types of girls. White chicks, hispanic chicks, black chicks, asian chicks, european chicks, middle eastern chicks. I love all the ladies. It's fun to be a connoiseur of women.